We are really getting into it now! We went out yesterday and got some nice bits in John Lewis and tonight we are going to go mad in the aisles at tesco and mothercare! I finally got the DH to see sense on saturday morning. I basically said something along the lines of:- This is a joint marriage and it is not up to you when we make decisions to buy things. You may not really believe that he is coming but I bloody do! and the stress of not being able to buy things can't be good for me ....etc...etc It worked! OK on sunday we only bought 2 cat safety nets, some towells, sponges and some frames for our wedding pictures, but it was a start. Major spree tonight though. We are doing our big mothercare world and tesco shopping tonight, and I'll let you know what we bought tomorrow! I was so excited about it last night I couldn't sleep!