She's driving me f**king crazy!

Discussion in 'Third Trimester' started by LouiseH, Jun 15, 2013.

  1. LouiseH

    LouiseH Well-Known Member

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    Aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!
    I'm ready to kill / scream, like seriously man :(
    I do apologise for my appalling language

    My cousins girlfriend had a baby in November last year, and she's 20. My cousin is 24, I'm close with my cousin but not her. I've always just been polite with her sorta thing. Anyway..

    As some of you know I suffer horrendously with SPD and I've been measuring small so obv very worried, etc. And some of the things this girl says are really pissing me off now. Its like she's a fucking expert! Some of the things she says..

    1) I receive a text message the day before I'm due at hospital for another growth scan.. 'Are you shitting it about your scan tomorrow? I would be hahahahaha!' WTF? Really? Really you vile little bitch! I was worried enough as it was without stupid messages like that!

    2) Another text.. 'How's your hips?' And I reply 'Horrendous at the moment, can't get out at all as my hips are giving way with the pain, and I'm almost falling or actually falling. So its just putting me & baby at risk.' And her reply was.. 'Your stupid, you have to go out and walk about, it'll help make your labour easier. Your cracked up for not doing much!!' - Again.. WTF? An expert on SPD are we? I'd rather stay in and rest as much as possible then put my daughter at risk of me falling and something happening to her, and go through a hellishly painful labour! My priority is my baby, not my pain. You know what I mean?

    3) Comments about my chosen name.. She has Amelia Jo. For no reason other then she liked it and she was trying to keep in with the name trends at the time! I on the other hand have Taylor-Rose.. Taylor was my late Grandads surname, who I was very close to. So the name means a lot to me. And we chose Rose to keep the name feminine and less 'American'. We love the name, and so do the rest of our families. Its a name close to our heart. So when she first found out she twisted mentioning Taylor Swift - This hadn't accured to me, and doesn't bother me as our daughters named after my Grandad, not a popstar. Then she made comments about it being a mans name after Taylor Lautner. So these two issues were annoying enough. But now she does things like.. Oh what's that weird name you've chosen again? And other comments of the sort. Grrrrr!!!!

    These are just THREE of many things she says/does that are pissing me off that are pregnancy related!

    What annoys me is that, she goes on like she's an expert. But in reality, she's 20 and alreadt has a 7 year old son that she doesn't see as she gave up all rights and signed the child over to his Dad.. Because she was too interested in drink & drugs. Which personally disgusts me! My daughter isn't even here yet and I could never imagine giving her up to someone, especially for something as pathetic as drink & drugs!!!!!

    Then she's just had this baby with my cousin, my cousin works in a hotel as a chef, works really hard and long hours to provide for her and the baby, as she doesn't want to work (Not just because she's had a baby, I mean like she's never had a job!) But then she takes the rise out of my cousin, and moans that he's not home much or takes the piss with money, etc. There's also been questioning of whether my cousin is even the Dad of this baby (Not by me may I add - By my cousins immediate family.)

    Then about 2 month ago (before all these issues with regards to my pregnancy occured) I invited her down to our house on night in order to make an effort and get to know her. As all that side of the family had made her out to be not so nice, so I thought I'd give her a chance. BIG MISTAKE!!!
    She sat and flirted with my OHs friends all night, tried to kiss on of them and kept touching him (even though he made it obvious he wasn't interested!) And then sat and told all of these sexual stories and about how she used to work as a stripper/escort!!! (Which isn't true at all!! It was all lies to try and get attention!) And it physically knocked me sick :eh: Then.. She had the cheek to flirt on with my OH!!!!! :shock: I wanted to smack the little trollop in the face! She wasn't even discrete about it, it was right in front of my face. Kept following him to the kitchen and then even had the cheek to follow him to the toilet to try and get him alone!!! That was the final straw and we told her we were going to bed and that people were going hjome so she would have to aswell. Even then she tried to get me to let her sleep the night.. NO!!!!! Not to mention she's meant to be with my cousin. So I've been put in a very awkward situation!!!!!

    Oh and.... Now she texts me constantly!
    And if I don't reply I get like 4/5 other texts. Then she'll start ringing the house phone and my mobile.

    Aghhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!
    Just needed to vent some anger lol x
     
  2. umbongo

    umbongo Well-Known Member

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    She sounds a bit mental!! (Sorry, very un pc to say). Walking makes SPD worse for a start!!
    I would try and ignore her, however awkward that is, just reply yes or no, don't get into conversations. Someone like that just says poisonous things. She sounds really awful. I feel sorry for your cousin really!
    You don't need the stress so don't let her get to you, it's not worth it! Xxxx
     
  3. Dax

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    She's sound a right little witch!! Like umbongo says, you don't need the stress so just try and ignore her as much as you can. Not surprised you need to vent some anger, I'd have snapped at her long before now!! X
     
  4. Kay Kay

    Kay Kay Well-Known Member

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    I would delete her number and ignore or block her texts. You don't need this kinda stress in your life, and she is really winding you up. In all seriousness she sounds mentally unstable and probably needs professional help. That's not your job, she's not your responsibility/close friend so try and get her out your life if you can xxx
     
  5. Missbatesy

    Missbatesy Well-Known Member

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    Uh, do not like the sound of this girl at all!! Well done for not slapping her round the face already but just shows your more mature! I'm 20 too but I guess some people don't grow up! Hope having a rant has helped :) x
     
  6. LouiseH

    LouiseH Well-Known Member

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    Its helped! Haha..
    Just need to get rid of her lol.. Which is a bit hartd cause when I ignore her she goes on ay my cousin lol. Poor thing, I'll just have to grin & bare it, and avoid calls & texts lol. Only answering the odd text. Luckily when babies here I'll have the excuse of 'Am too busy to reply/answer all the time!' At the moment all I've got is 'Am very tired so sleeping.' But I can't sleep 24/7 haha x
     

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