Jamie.d
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So me and my ex partner share the care of our children 50/50 which is quite difficult because for half of the week I don't see them at all and have to BEG to face time them most days
I went back to work and agreed he could have the benefits as he didn't enjoy working and was depressed
what I didn't know what that this gave him rights as the primary carer!! how stupid I feel now...
Anyway, my son (only 3yo!) is seriously ill...When I had them last week I had to take him to the urgent care centre as his breathing was erratic and he had a temp of almost 40!
the next day dear daddy comes to collect them and all of a sudden 'he's fine'
I knew this wasn't the case and my suspicions were confirmed when I get a text saying
'he's puked outside preschool and he's coughing so hard his nose is bleeding'
But wouldn't let me speak to them or take him to the doctor!
He told me this morning that is happened again last night and this child has NEVER had a nosebleed! I'm absolutely terrified because he won't take him to the doctor but as it isn't my day I can't just burst into their house and take them... I face timed them this morning and he looks awful and even like hes dropped a little weight... I'm going out of my mind with worry
I went back to work and agreed he could have the benefits as he didn't enjoy working and was depressed
what I didn't know what that this gave him rights as the primary carer!! how stupid I feel now...
Anyway, my son (only 3yo!) is seriously ill...When I had them last week I had to take him to the urgent care centre as his breathing was erratic and he had a temp of almost 40!
the next day dear daddy comes to collect them and all of a sudden 'he's fine'
I knew this wasn't the case and my suspicions were confirmed when I get a text saying
'he's puked outside preschool and he's coughing so hard his nose is bleeding'
But wouldn't let me speak to them or take him to the doctor!
He told me this morning that is happened again last night and this child has NEVER had a nosebleed! I'm absolutely terrified because he won't take him to the doctor but as it isn't my day I can't just burst into their house and take them... I face timed them this morning and he looks awful and even like hes dropped a little weight... I'm going out of my mind with worry