As far as I can tell I am 11dpo, af due mon 12th or maybe tues. Oh and I decided to postpone ttc until after we get married in 2018 after a mc earlier this year. Not overly happy about that but actually stopping ttc has been good for me. So I decided to go on the contraceptive pill to help regulate my periods as they have been crazy heavy and long. But I have a dreadful memory and haven't taken it for 8 years so decided it isn't for me. After an initial freak out my oh ended up thrilled that I was pregnant last time, so we would be happy to be pregnant, waiting til 2018 is more about convenience and i'll be 35 then. Usually I get terrible pms in the week before my period, but with it looming in a few days I suddenly realised I don't feel like it's on its way, and last night whilst visiting a friend I realised my nipples felt sensitive, something I don't normally suffer from. (I actually stopped mid conversation to feel my boobs, much to my friends amusement!) Me and oh haven't ttc this month, but haven't tried not to either which is our usual pattern the last couple of months. Now I've been sitting here thinking all morning about testing, but after many years ttc in the past and many bfns I don't want to feel sad over another BFN! Last night I dreamt I tested and I was two months gone already! In reality that isn't possible. On the other hand - its my best friends birthday party tomorrow night and I want to know if I can have a couple of drinks with her or not, but I know I may still be even if I get a BFN. What would you do?!