Bit of an embarrasing topic but really need your advice girls.... I have been dreading "cuddles" since Aimee was born as my stitches have continued to be pretty sore & uncomftable at times & the thought of sex did not really appeal to me.... anyway we tried if for the first time (11 weeks after!!) and it was pretty painful & I had to stop. Without being too graphic it wasnt actually the stiches area that hurt it was deep inside, it wasnt sharp or horrific pain just really uncomftable & not enjoyable at all. Has anyone else experienced this? Will it get better in time? My OH wants me to go to doctor but I really dont want to. When they stitch you up do they do it right inside or just the tear?? I feel pretty fed up now as cant believe its still not right after all this time ... am I ever going to feel normal again ?! My poor OH, he must be so frustrated & this is doing no good for our relationship.