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Hi,
I am 15+6 with my first baby.
Due to a slight bleed very early in the pregnancy I was advised to not have sex until we got the all clear from my first scan.
Since then all has been fine and I haven't been told otherwise.
Anyhoo, my partner basically wont touch me with a barge pole and I'm getting seriously down in the dumps about it.
He says he feels very uncomfortable about 'encroaching on baby territory' and doing more harm than good.
I've made him aware that I don't expect him f**k the hell out of me, just to have some intimacy (last time was November not long after we first found out)
I'm fed up pleasing him and getting very very little in return!
Has anyone had this problem with their partner, and how do you overcome it?
Sorry if this post offends any body, I just need some friendly advice!
Thanks
Dannii
I am 15+6 with my first baby.
Due to a slight bleed very early in the pregnancy I was advised to not have sex until we got the all clear from my first scan.
Since then all has been fine and I haven't been told otherwise.
Anyhoo, my partner basically wont touch me with a barge pole and I'm getting seriously down in the dumps about it.
He says he feels very uncomfortable about 'encroaching on baby territory' and doing more harm than good.
I've made him aware that I don't expect him f**k the hell out of me, just to have some intimacy (last time was November not long after we first found out)
I'm fed up pleasing him and getting very very little in return!
Has anyone had this problem with their partner, and how do you overcome it?
Sorry if this post offends any body, I just need some friendly advice!
Thanks
Dannii