My partner is very disappointed with me because my sex drive has decreased dramatically since we had our son. Of course sex is not allowed for a while after birth, and then I was nursing until LO was 10 months, and I don't think the nursing hormones help either. However, now it's almost another 10 months since I stopped nursing and I still have very little interest for sex. We've had some issues with our relationship, but even when everything is well, even when I'm happy and want to be with my OH, I still feel not interested in having sex, like I'd rather go without and just cuddle or talk. I don't like it and I've been wondering if this is normal or if I'm going in some sort of early menopause (I'm 31 years old), although everything else is working very well. I guess this is a bit of a awkward topic, but does anyone have similar experience? Do you know if this is normal or if it gets better?