Smallbluething
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Myself and my partner of over two years have had problems for a while. It's hard to say for exactly how long, and it's stemmed from many factors. Just before new year, we broke up, but then he had a change of heart and we got back together just after. A day later, I found out I was pregnant.
From there, things got from bad, to worse.
So many things happened in that short time to create friction and bad feeling.
A few weeks ago it got to the point where we had a friend intervene, thought we had it sorted and then the next day it all escalated again, screaming matches, plate thrown at the wall, his screaming that I wanted to break up with him, and then me giving in cos I was scared.
After some time apart (and more turbulence in my life) we decided to separate, but look at things and see if we could work it out.
I'm now 13&half weeks. He came to the scan at 12weeks, and has supported me through some work issues (we work in the same place, I do days, he does nights) but more as a friend.
I'm having to look more and more at being a single parent. I currently live with my mum, but that is on tender strings right now and although she wants me to live here, I don't think I could have the freedom of being a mother and living with her, I think she would tell me what to do all the time. I would be unhappy. I'm looking at moving out with my friend.
It's all very overwhelming and I don't think I'd have gotten through any of this without my friends.
From there, things got from bad, to worse.
So many things happened in that short time to create friction and bad feeling.
A few weeks ago it got to the point where we had a friend intervene, thought we had it sorted and then the next day it all escalated again, screaming matches, plate thrown at the wall, his screaming that I wanted to break up with him, and then me giving in cos I was scared.
After some time apart (and more turbulence in my life) we decided to separate, but look at things and see if we could work it out.
I'm now 13&half weeks. He came to the scan at 12weeks, and has supported me through some work issues (we work in the same place, I do days, he does nights) but more as a friend.
I'm having to look more and more at being a single parent. I currently live with my mum, but that is on tender strings right now and although she wants me to live here, I don't think I could have the freedom of being a mother and living with her, I think she would tell me what to do all the time. I would be unhappy. I'm looking at moving out with my friend.
It's all very overwhelming and I don't think I'd have gotten through any of this without my friends.