Saying goodbye to you all

Discussion in 'First Trimester' started by Petals21, Dec 8, 2016.

  1. Petals21

    Petals21 Member

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    Just come back from EPU - confirmed early miscarriage. They told me my uterus was empty and from what she could see and what I described happened over the weekend looks like I m/c naturally. I've cried to the point where I can't cry anymore:(
    Had bloods done to check my hormone levels and have to have another lot done on Sunday
    I'm ok I think just very sad

    Petals

    Xx
     
  2. mrsjohnson88

    mrsjohnson88 Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear this petals. Big hugs xxx
     
  3. M1chelle

    M1chelle Well-Known Member

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    So sorry petals. I hope your pain eases soon and you get your rainbow baby xx
     
  4. Petals21

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    Thank you hospital just rang with blood results to confirm I had a m/c they are discharging me now does that mean I don't have to go back on Sunday? She didn't say xx
     
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    So sorry Petal, thinking of you x

    If your hcg was low enough they shouldn't need to do another test. Mine was 54 with my miscarriage and they said I needed to do a pregnancy test in a weeks time to make sure it's negative and if not to call back. I think because theycan't see anything in the uterus they want to rule out an eptopic. Best to ring and make sure you don't need to go back x
     
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    :hugs: so very sorry huni, thinking of you x
     
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    So sorry hun. I have had two losses and it is heartbreaking. Look after yourself and give yourself plenty of time to grieve. Hugs
     
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  8. Petals21

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    She just said that I have to wait for hormones to drop to 0 confirmed a miscarriage then said they are discharging me I've never had to go to EPU before my GP referred me. They were so cold at the hospital tbh :(

    Thank you for all your replies I'm just gutted she said it was a very early m/c
     
  9. BunnyN

    BunnyN Well-Known Member

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    I had a very early loss and a 10 week loss. Although the 10 week loss turned out to be quite traumatic physically there are some throngs about an early loss that are worse. I found it really hard grieving over something barely existed but was so huge a loss at the same time.
     
  10. pringle88

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    So sorry xx


     
  11. SpiritedAway

    SpiritedAway Well-Known Member

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    So sorry petal, I had a loss in Sept at 7 weeks, I struggled more so a couple of weeks after as it all sunk in. I'm with Bunny, its really difficult to grieve over something like this, it hit me in waves and I felt so cheated. Life is cruel.

    There is a silver lining, I got pregnant straight afterwards much to our surprise. Wishing you the best and take time to look after yourself xx
     
  12. HarleySarah

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    So sorry petals, big hugs ♡ xx
     
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    Thinking of you Petals21 xx
     

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