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Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by pammie, Dec 6, 2007.

  1. pammie

    pammie Well-Known Member

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    Hi
    I had a second reasurance scan today and the nurse found that my little one had no heart beat I was 8 weeks. I had 2 specialists come in to confirm there was no sight and no sound they think it happened in the last day or two as everything had progressed since my 6 week scan, i feel completly numb, i have to go tomorrow for tablets to expel the loss, and that makes me feel even stranger that it is still there,
    They have told me that they are going to see me again in two weeks and then in a month or so's time to start tests on why this might be happening.
    I dont feel bitter just sick and i know there is nothing i could have done to stop it

    Pam x
     
  2. Petra

    Petra Well-Known Member

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    Hi Pam,

    I am so sorry to hear about your losses. I know how painful it is. I am sorry I can't do more for you than :hug: :hug: :hug:

    Petra xxx
     
  3. pammie

    pammie Well-Known Member

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    Thankyou petra

    I just never thought i would be in this situation so soon
    am dreading tommorrow thanks for your support

    pam xxx
     
  4. Kimberly

    Kimberly Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry. :hug: I know how awful it is to know that the baby is still there, but there is no life left. I felt some closure once the procedure was over ( I had a D&C). I'll be thinking about you tomorrow. :hug:
     
  5. angiemum2b

    angiemum2b Well-Known Member

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    oh hun im so sorry for your loss. :cry:

    I'm here if you need to talk. :hug:
     
  6. pammie

    pammie Well-Known Member

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    Thankyou kimberley and angiemum2be

    I was going to ask for the surgical proceedure but i have been advised to use the tablets but that means taking one and then coming back in 2 days and taking another 2 tablets 4 hours apart i just want it to be over :cry: . I start my new job on christmas eve.............. its at the hospital am being treated in on the miscarriage, abortion and cancer ward, am going to speak to the matron tomorrow and tell her what is happening and see if she advises postponing my start date until the new year, but part of me would rather get stuck in to work

    pam xxx
     
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    sarah113 Well-Known Member

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    im so sorry for your loss :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  8. trigger

    trigger Well-Known Member

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    I am so so sorry.

    :hug:
     
  9. gypsy

    gypsy Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry to read this.
    We are all here for you.

    Will be thinking of you

    Shell xx
     
  10. MissSara

    MissSara Well-Known Member

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    I am sorry for your loss, i wish there was something i could say or do to make you feel better x x x Thinking of you
     
  11. Sarah&Braydon

    Sarah&Braydon Well-Known Member

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    i am so so sorry hun :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
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    Trudyscrumptious76 Well-Known Member

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    Sorry for your loss. :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  13. CharlieOne

    CharlieOne Well-Known Member

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    Im so sorry for your lost Sweetheart..... :hug: :hug: :hug:

    Has for the job, dont rush into take you time to get yourself back 100%, ive only just get back to work after my MC and theirs time i still feel unwell at work :( But im hopeing that will pass soon once im back into the swing of things....
     
  14. tracey 2

    tracey 2 Well-Known Member

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    Pam, i dont know what to say :hug: :hug:

    I really hoped all would be well, been thinking of you and so sad to see this, please be gentle on yourself and i hope tests they take help to find out anything.

    Always here PM anytime you need to talk :hug: :hug:
     
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    Rosebay Well-Known Member

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    :hug: :hug:

    So so sorry for your loss :hug:

    It's so unfair, I really hope they find out what's happening really soon because you need some answers.

    :hug: :hug: :hug:
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  16. Emma79

    Emma79 Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss :hug: :hug: Really hope you get some answers soon.

    Only you know how you feel about going to work but I think it's a good idea to have a chat with the matron and see what she suggests.

    Take care x
     
  17. pammie

    pammie Well-Known Member

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    Thankyou all for your kind words.
    I have taken my first tablet yesterday but there is no signs of anything yet which i am relieved about because i would much rather it all happen in the hospital and will be taking my next 2 tommorrow, my husband is trying to stay strong for me am trying to stay strong for him if anything it has brought us even closer which i never thought was possible.
    Am dreading tommorrow not the best sircumstances to be meeting your new work collegues, and i will speak to the nurse incharge about when am starting work there.
    thankyou all for your support again
    Pam xx
     
  18. Rosebay

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    Thinking of you today :hug:

    I know it's not the best circumstances to meet your new collegues but on the other hand at least they will know what a fragile state you're in and will be able to support you when you start work, especially if you find any areas of your work difficult for recent personal reasons.

    Huge hugs ((( )))

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    Steelgoddess Well-Known Member

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    Oh no...

    Im so sorry this happened to you my love. Am here if you need to talk or a something to listen to you

    xxx

    :hug:
     

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