Sad news

Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by Flick, Dec 19, 2007.

  1. Flick

    Flick Well-Known Member

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    Today I found out I had mis-carrried. I started bleeding on Friday night and on Saturday rang NHS Direct who advised me to see the emergency doctor, who said if the bleeding got worse to go to the A & E. Well, Sunday I started losing so much blood I nearly passed-out aswell as large clots of blood (sorry TMI :oops: )

    At 10 o'clock DH rushed me to hospital and I was admitted to the EPU, he stayed with me while I had the tests done and left about three o'clock.

    I had a scan in the morning and they found a sac but no heartbeat and it was smaller than it should have been. The outcome was that they thought it may miscarry naturally but my hgc levels was still up so they needed to check it again in 24 hours and today they confirmed it was a micarriage.

    The other thing they found is that I have a "heart-shaped" womb so if it had been found out later in the pregnancy, I could have been in serious trouble and so could the baby, so in a way it has mixed blessings. It will also efffect any hopes for future pregnancies.
     
  2. mary70

    mary70 Well-Known Member

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    oh no hun so sorry :hug:
     
  3. A&J

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    So sorry to hear this. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  4. kazlin

    kazlin Well-Known Member

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    Flick, I am so sorry :(

    (((HUG)))
     
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    x Naomi x Well-Known Member

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    So so sorry hun, i am here if you need to talk

    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  6. Flick

    Flick Well-Known Member

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    Thanks girls - I knew you would be supportive
     
  7. Petra

    Petra Well-Known Member

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    OMG :wall: I am so sorry to hear the sad news. I remember you replying to my posts when I was going through my m/c. I can't believe it happened to you too. I know what you are going through. It is so painful. Please stay strong. :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  8. sarah113

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    Im so sorry hun :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  9. Manda&Thomas

    Manda&Thomas Well-Known Member

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    really sorry to hear that hun
    manda xx
     
  10. Slinky Sarah

    Slinky Sarah Well-Known Member

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    OMG hun im so sorry...as soon as i saw your name for the post i went cold.
    I hope you are doing ok. Take care of yourself. here if you need to talk xxx
    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  11. Tillytots

    Tillytots Well-Known Member

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    oh Flick Im so sorry :cry: :cry: :cry:

    thinking of you :hug: :hug:
    xxxx
     
  12. skairdykat

    skairdykat Well-Known Member

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    Oh hun I am so so sorry :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  13. Suzie and Faith

    Suzie and Faith Well-Known Member

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    :hug: :hug: :hug: So sorry for you , hugs and love xxx
     
  14. Sammystar

    Sammystar Well-Known Member

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    so sorry to hear this....you are in my thoughts..... :hug: :hug:
     
  15. CB23

    CB23 Well-Known Member

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    Oh Flick :( I'm so sorry :hug:
     
  16. reallyoldmum

    reallyoldmum Well-Known Member

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    Oh my god Flick my heart goes out to you :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: If you ever need to talk, cry, rant or shout I'm here for you x x x x x x
     
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    oh flick :cry: :cry: :cry:
    i am really really sorry :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  19. freepie

    freepie Well-Known Member

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    Oh Flick, I am so so sorry. :hug:
     
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    Flick, you poor thing :hug: I am so sorry :hug: :hug:
     

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