Sad news....maybe tmi

Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by Sprk, Jun 21, 2013.

  1. Sprk

    Sprk Well-Known Member

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    Hi everyone. I was off ere for a while trying to relax and get through the first twelve weeks. Today I was ten weeks along. I woke up in a lot of pain at 5 am. Went to the loo to find some bleeding. My DH called the mdwife and we were sent to A and E. By he time we got there the bleeding was very bad. The booked me in and two doctors tried to slow it down, but I lost about a liter. In the end I had to have an op. My poor DH was next to almost the entire time feeling helpless. I don't think I would have got through it without him. They let me go home this evening and I am feeling much better. Sad, but ok.

    Just had to let that all out. Sorry if it was tmi.
     
  2. Vickilou25

    Vickilou25 Well-Known Member

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    Thats what this site is for hun, hope you feel better soon xxxx
     
  3. scn

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    So sorry hun. Take care xx
     
  4. laurat

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    Im sorry for your loss honey! Take care of you and you OH!!!
     
  5. Balthazar1275

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    I am so sorry, I hope you and your OH take care of each other through this terrible time

    Michelle x
     
  6. Cersei

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    so sorry to hear this :( hope u feel better soon.. x
     
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    I'm sorry for your loss hon, take care of yourself!!
     
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    Daley Well-Known Member

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    I'm really sorry for your loss Hun! Take care of yourself and oh. We're all here for when you want to talk xxx
     
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    Lots of love to you xxx
     
  10. naomi88

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    So sorry to hear this. We are all here when you need to talk xx
     
  11. Samsgirl

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    so so sorry hon xxx
     
  12. Cosmogirl7

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    Oh god I'm so sorry, hope you're ok. We all know what you're going through and it just bloody sucks xxx
     
  13. nbrintz

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    So sorry x
     
  14. Sprk

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    Thank you, everyone. I feel sorry for oh because he watched them try to stop all the bleeding before I was sent to theatre. He's a bit in shock, but being very supportive. I know we'll try again in a month or so. Doing my best to be optimistic and positive.

    It was hard this morning. I think it was the first time I had a chance to come to terms with what happened and I just cried and cried. I did feel better after, so maybe that's a good sign.
     
  15. Cazza

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    So sorry Sprk xx
     
  16. cornishfairy

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    So sorry honey. Thats so sad :( xxxx
     
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    So sorry for your loss, what a horrific time. Look after yourself and plenty of rest x x
     
  18. Lou1103

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    So sorry hun :( xxx
     
  19. Sprk

    Sprk Well-Known Member

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    Thank you, everyone. I am glad I have taken the week off work, as I have been getting tired easily. As the days go by I am getting my strength back. However, I must admit I can't wait to get back into the routine of work.

    We're going to start ttc after my next cycle starts. The cramping after the d&c hasn't been bad, but I can't wait for it to stop altogether- just reminds me of what happened, not that I can forget it though.
     
  20. AJay

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    I am so sorry - it is so sad. Take care of yourself, you have been through a lot. Everyone is here to talk if you need to xxx
     

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