We were very laid back with Grace in terms of a routine in that initially we let her tell us when she was tired or hungry. She was very all over the place with her feeds at first but as the weeks went on she gradually became more regular with her feeds. I would say up until she was about 10 weeks old we would just put her to bed when we went but then gradually we brought it forward to 9pm then 8pm and now it's about 7:30pm. Now we tend to bath her every other night and then the nights in between I give her a massage, this is all done with the lights down low and soft music on. Then we give her her last bottle in her nursery, again with dim lighting and the mobile on then it's straight down to bed. I really wouldn't worry about any strict routines yet, I remember being worried initally that I had no routine but babies can take a while to settle and I think the more laid back you are the better for baby as they sense it. Good luck and enjoy those early weeks they fly by! x x