Really freaking out. Please help!

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  1. Samantha0601

    Samantha0601 Member

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    Hi, I’m currently 9 weeks and 3 days. I had an early miscarriage back in March and ever since I found out I was pregnant again I’ve been so scared!
    Last Tuesday I had quite a big bleed, I was convinced I was losing the baby. I was booked in the next day for an early scan and we were both surprised/happy/still scared to see a little tiny baby and a heartbeat! I haven’t stoped worrying though and everything is scaring me. After the scan for a day or 2 I then had brown blood which obviously wasn’t nice but I was reassured that it was old blood and quite common. Since last Wednesday when I had the scan I’ve had some little aches/pains in my lower tummy and also some pink discharge. I’ve also realised tonight that even since before the big bleed I don’t have the pregnancy symptoms that I did have, feeling sick and sore breasts. I’m totally freaking out and over thinking everything! I don’t know what to do?! Please help
     
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    Abi88 Well-Known Member

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    Can you arrange another scan?
     
  3. SugaryIris

    SugaryIris Well-Known Member

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    It’s normal for symptoms to come and go and experience some cramping and bleeding in early pregnancy. If you are worried though I would call the dr and see if you can get another scan. Good luck x
     
  4. Samantha0601

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    I don’t want to be that pain in the arse that rings all the time and sound like I’m the only woman that’s only been pregnant. Would they scan again this soon? I only had a scan last Wednesday and I’m only 9 weeks
     
  5. SugaryIris

    SugaryIris Well-Known Member

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    If you’re still bleeding and now cramping too I don’t imagine that they would consider it an unreasonable request. No harm in asking.

    Who cares if they think you’re a pain? You don’t have to see them all the time just on a few occasions and then they’ll forget! X
     
  6. Baby Ali

    Baby Ali Well-Known Member

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    Hi
    I had a mc previously and now am pregnant 14 weeks, and yes everything scares you and u think the worse but its all okay, i had bad cramps last week i went to see my gp and i have another scan 2mrw,
    My advice will be to go to ur gp and express ur concerns and that ur anxious and worried as u had mc previously they will arrange a scan for you.

    Goodluck x
     
  7. Aprilxxx

    Aprilxxx Well-Known Member

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    I had two mc before this pregnancy and event tho I’m now 19+2 I worry daily so I totally get how you feel.
    I had a bleed at 6 weeks and had a scan like you and everything was fine. They arranged a follow up scan for my reassurance tho which really helped at the time. Don’t worry about being a pain your peace of mind is more important and the nurses at the epu are used to women ringing with concerns. Pain is totally normal in the 1st tri tho...your baby is small but your body is stretching. I had full period aches until I was about 14 weeks!!

    So how your feeling is normal but make another scan so you feel more reassured.
     

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