My OH has got no faith in what I do whatsoever! He seems to think every little noise means something is seriously wrong with Tyler! When I was pregnant I asked him to read my books, he refused. When I'd talk about having the baby and little facts about babies that might be relevant he wouldn't listen and today he made a comment about me not knowing everything to which I had to point out that I spend my day on here and google learning everything I can (not saying because of that I know everything just proving I put more effort in wanting to know!) Tyler just threw a major tantrum which is very rare for him really he's a very placid baby. Anyway we'd just got him out the bath and as I dried him he started screaming. So I was giving him cuddles in his towel, still screaming, offered him boob, still screaming, OH took him off me, still screaming. At this point I had to tell him that we need to get him dressed so that he's not cold so I put him in a vest (still screaming lol) and offered him boob again which he took but kept pulling off to cry. Next to me OH was huffing and puffing telling me the babies ill, something's wrong with him etc generally winding me up, then sits there going 'why is he crying so much' head in hands tutting and shaking his head! Id had enough at this point and took Tyler into our dark quiet calm bedroom and he chilled right out! Problem solved! He just really winds me up with his panicking all the time! I'm a firm believer in a calm atmosphere creates a calm child but he just seems to constantly overstimulate or gets really fretful which helps noone! I feel bad saying anything as he says I tell him what to do enough (but if I didn't I'd have to do EVERYTHING for the baby) Don't get ms wrong this is a rant he has been amazing in other ways waiting on me hand and foot cooking all my meals doing the washing up etc!!