I've noticed that since Tyler was born, whenever we see the family in law I get TOTALLY left out! I first noticed it the day we came home from hospital, but didn't think much of it as I'd had a c section was sore and not happy how they came charging over (but that's a whole different story!) My OH had hold of the baby because he'd been changing him and obviously Ty was passed round from person to person so everyone could have a hold, fair enough! When he started fussing before they went he was given back to OH. Didn't think much of it. The next time we saw them after their cuddles he was given back to OH although again he was fussing. I just end up sitting there like a spare part. Now last weekend (and this is where I really noticed it) we went over and he had my MIL, FIL, SIL and BIL there along with his nan and grandad. Poor little Tyler when he woke up (after MIL sitting next to him in his car seat and touching his feet constantly) he was passed around like a parcel until he needed feeding when he was given to OH! and I only got hold of him when we took him into MILs bedroom! And again when we went back down he was taken off me again so everyone could have another 'turn'. I was a bit pissed off but got over it. TONIGHT MIL and BIL announce to OH they were coming over (I was not a happy bunny as I had Tyler asleep on my lap in my pjs no make up and hair unbrushed!) MIL came and sat next to me and kept playing with his feet (obviously to wake him up) surprise surprise he did and she demanded a cuddle so OH took him off my lap and gave him to her! He then after about 5 mins he started screaming as he wanted feeding so although she was sitting next to me, SHE HANDED THE BABY TO OH! I was flabbergasted. He eventually gave me the baby to change his nappy and feed. She then stood over me as I changed it then asked for another cuddle. I had to literally take him off her because he was crying so much. They decided to leave and I eventually got to feed my baby! I don't understand why he's always given to OH???