Wasn't too sure how to title this thread. Will just come out and ask, has anyone tried the perinium massage thing...? The books I have read all swear by it, but my midwife hasn't said a word. Is it just an alternative method or does it actually work. Its just the thought of stretching myself down there , even though I know baby will definately be doing that. And to be honest I'm not too sure if I can reach down south anymore? What does everyone think?