Hey,
Firstly, sorry for posting an off the topic thread but I really need some advice because I'm about to lose it!!!!
Before I got pregnant I decided to rent out my spare room to make some extra cash. In the interim of her moving in I got pregnant but thought it would still be a good idea to have her stay until I was nearly due. Anyway first month rent was due 5th January, that date came and went with no rent. On the 11th she asked for my bank details again because she had lost them....not even a sorry the rent is late
When I interviewed her she said she worked in a library, I soon realised this wasn't true when I'd take the day off work she would be home allllll day. I asked her about her job and she said she doesn't need to work and lives off her student loan. Now as long as the rent is paid I don't really care but it's the fact she lied about it. Also, I now face a massive increase in energy bills when she's home all day using up gas and electric. She also has a habit of just leaving her light on even she's not in her room and socialising with us in the living room but I think I'm just picking at everything now...
She has also used my landline to call mobiles without my permission, she will get the bill but I thought someone that was mature would say, by the way I used your phone, let me know when the bill comes and I'll settle up. Is she waiting for me to bring it up like I'm her bloody mother?
Lastly but i think is the last straw. Tonight she was trying to run a bath, now my bath has to be on a really low stream for the hot water to come through. I told her this but she ignored me and had it on full blast which resulted in cold water coming out. I then find her in the kitchen with a pot on the stove and the kettle going. I just want to throw her out!!! It's making me stressed but OH is so laid back and thinks I'm overacting which is then upsetting me more.
I've been nice to her. I helped her move I as she doesn't have a car. I didn't expect anything but she didn't even offer petrol money
Is it my hormones making me irrational? Usually I'm fairly chilled out but this girl is irrating me and I'm tempted to give her notice. I feel like I'm being unfair but I can't help it. Someone slap me or tell me what to do because OH is currently snoring after I cried to him about it
Xxx
Firstly, sorry for posting an off the topic thread but I really need some advice because I'm about to lose it!!!!
Before I got pregnant I decided to rent out my spare room to make some extra cash. In the interim of her moving in I got pregnant but thought it would still be a good idea to have her stay until I was nearly due. Anyway first month rent was due 5th January, that date came and went with no rent. On the 11th she asked for my bank details again because she had lost them....not even a sorry the rent is late
When I interviewed her she said she worked in a library, I soon realised this wasn't true when I'd take the day off work she would be home allllll day. I asked her about her job and she said she doesn't need to work and lives off her student loan. Now as long as the rent is paid I don't really care but it's the fact she lied about it. Also, I now face a massive increase in energy bills when she's home all day using up gas and electric. She also has a habit of just leaving her light on even she's not in her room and socialising with us in the living room but I think I'm just picking at everything now...
She has also used my landline to call mobiles without my permission, she will get the bill but I thought someone that was mature would say, by the way I used your phone, let me know when the bill comes and I'll settle up. Is she waiting for me to bring it up like I'm her bloody mother?
Lastly but i think is the last straw. Tonight she was trying to run a bath, now my bath has to be on a really low stream for the hot water to come through. I told her this but she ignored me and had it on full blast which resulted in cold water coming out. I then find her in the kitchen with a pot on the stove and the kettle going. I just want to throw her out!!! It's making me stressed but OH is so laid back and thinks I'm overacting which is then upsetting me more.
I've been nice to her. I helped her move I as she doesn't have a car. I didn't expect anything but she didn't even offer petrol money
Is it my hormones making me irrational? Usually I'm fairly chilled out but this girl is irrating me and I'm tempted to give her notice. I feel like I'm being unfair but I can't help it. Someone slap me or tell me what to do because OH is currently snoring after I cried to him about it
Xxx