My lg is 3. We toilet trained her in march as she really seemed ready. She took to it straight away but not poo. She was three a few days ago and she still waits until she has a pull up on at night to do it. She gets distressed in the day about doung it and although she knows what to do and where she should do it she point blank refuses and wont tell me why. Any ideas of what might help or any reassurance at all? Should i do more than hope it will just happen?