I have recently been diagnosed with a mild form of pnd. Didnt even know there was a range of different levels of pnd, but hey there you go! Anyway, Im having problems with my mil...nothing unusual there for me tbh, but this is really getting difficult. She doesnt know I have pnd, and there is no way I will ever be telling her...but every time I go over to visit her with my husband and daughter Lanna, I end up coming away feeling horrendous! For example, At the weekend we were at her house, and I had only walked through the door, when she was straight in telling me she had a magazine for me which gave advise on how to bring up your baby!!! I immediately felt my blood boil. Then the whole time we were there, she quoted 'facts' from the magazine that she had read...she asked me what sounds Lanna made, beacuase apparently if a baby makes lots of bababab noises it means they are unhappy!!! Well, Lanna has lately been saying babababa non stop!!! So imagine how this made me feel!!! Then she went on about how I have to talk lots to Lanna, and sing to her etc etc.....honestly, I came away feeling like the most useless mother ever!! But because I am not really feeling 100%, I keep thinking maybe I am over reacting....but her comments were just continual, focused on how to be a good mother (and making me feel like such a bad mother!!). Anyone else experience this kind of thing?