Evan is 14 weeks today and I am still too scared to have sex. Not that there has been any good time for it, but all the stories I read on here are about ladies getting back on the horse very quickly! I had a natural birth and an episiotomy with a few stitches. Apparently it's all healing up nicely, I've had a coil fitted so no worries about getting pregnant again. However, it is still hurting/stinging every so often, and there is no way I want anything going up there unless it is a medical procedure! I had a perianal abscess and fistula about 7 years ago which took 4 ops, a gaping wound and 9 months to resolve so I am terrified about getting any kind of infection. I know I need to bite the bullet and go for it cos I'm sure it will be fine, but I can't bring myself to. Please tell me I'm not the only one putting it off. DH is very supportive so I'm under no pressure other than myself.