PLEASE- I NEED AN ANSWER

[AmesRaye]

I had a positive result on 2 HPT. I went to the DR. on 5-25, she confirmed (+) result but said it was faint. She sent me to the hospital due to a 1st Trimester Bleed, the did an u/s, which showed NOTHING- no sac- no nothing. I went for blood work, and hCG was detected in my blood also. This could be 1 of 2 things- either I miscarried back at the end of April, or I am only 4 or 5 DAYS pregnant. Does anyone have ANY idea what is wrong with me? I am terrified- I have a 16 mo old daughter, but I have been having a brownish/reddish discharge for 3 days now :

 

[SueT]

hi aimee
i hope everything goes well keep us posted !

is the spotting like period or is it only when you wipe ...?
lemme tell u something... i don't know if your's wa like mine...
i had 2 ectopic pregnancy...

1st one ... found out after i was spotting red blood... had pain to my shoulder and lower right side stomach...(sharp pain like needle poking)
i was 6/7 weeks pregnant ... bled for like 5 days like a period (not as much as a period though)i was peeing out a lil blood with it . i had to wear a pad.

2nd one ... thought i had my af but turns out to be another ectopic pg.
i was bleeding like a period for like a week and 2 days then did a pregnancy test it was positive and i knew something was wrong .
but this time blood was different colour. it was brownish black... well that's what it look like on my pad at that time. it was bleeding like i had my period that's why i thought it was af . but my 2nd pregnancy didn't feel any pain or anything... just bleeding like a period with very dark brownish blood...

so i hope it helps you.... if u don't feel or seem to be like me b4 then i think you'll be fine ...
But you know im no doctor! im just telling you from my experience.it's always important to get everything checked out!


remember to keep us posted....

 

[emilia]

Hi there, sorry to hear about your worries!!
It sounds to me if you may well be pregnant - however, you'll have to watch out for ectopic pregnancy symptoms. Mention it to you GP if you have sharp pains (apparently more common on your right side).
I had an early scan at 5 weeks and nothing was visible. It was only at my 9 week scan that we could see a tiny little heartbeat. Maybe it's just early days for you too. Don't stress - you might just have to give this a little more time. (even though I know too how very frustrating it can be to wait for results,etc)
Good luck and let me know how you get on.
Kind Regards
Emilia

 

[AmesRaye]

Thanks for your reply! The bleeding started out like spotting, and then it turned into more of a period. I don't have any pain, but I had all kinds of symptoms of pregnancy last month, and they are telling me I'm only 2-5 days pregnant. I will know more tomorrow morning. I have to go for bloodwork before 9am. I'll get my results by 10, and I'll be sure to update on Tuesday morning. Thanks again.

 

[emilia]

good luck!!!!!
thinking of you
emilia

 

[AmesRaye]

I found out Sunday morning that I miscarried- I am an emotional wreck- does this mean that I will never be able to have kids again? Am I going to have to go through this agony every time? I don't even want to try again- why did I have a perfectly normal first pregnancy- and a healthy child and then all of a sudden I miscarry- I want to die. This is so unfair.

 

[jo jo]

Hi Aimee

I am so sorry to hear what happened on Sunday. I know it seems unfair that your first pregnancy was fine and then this happens but its not your fault and there is nothing you could have done about it, i know it seems horrible but these things just happen sometimes. It does not at all mean that you cannot get pregnant again, wait a couple of months to for your emotions to get as back to normal as possible and then try to conceive. Just look to the future - when you do get pregnant again im sure you will be monitored closely by your midwife to try to prevent you miscarrying again.

Good Luck xxxx

 

[Sadie]

So sorry to hear this happend. You can concieve again. My husbands ex miscarried after they had their daughter. It does happen.

My thoughts are with you

S