littlesmoosh
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last weekend we visited OH's mum and stepdad. dex fell asleep in OHs mums car on the way there. and when we got there OH's mum said to just leave him in the car because it would be difficult to get him out without waking him as its only got 2 doors so would need to wiggle the car seat out. well i just wasnt comfortable leaving him to sleep in the car. for two reasons, 1 - it was about 22 degrees outside and i was scared he would over heat, even though she insisted it would be fine with the window open. and 2. what if someone took him? she wanted us to go eat dinner round the back of the house. so i wouldnt hear or see him. so i said no. i wanted to bring the carseat with us. so her and OH told me several times that i was being paranoid and over protective. OH alwaaaaaaaays agrees with his mum. honestly she could say 'micky mouse was actually a horse' and OH would agree with her. drives me insane.
well anyway, i insisted that he got lifted out the car (think she was scared the carseat would scrape the paint or something!). dex stayed asleep, and all was fine.
but its just so annoying. i really dont think im overprotective with dex, i think im the right amount of protective/caring/responsible. i would never have forgiven myself if something had happened to him. his safety is paramount to me. and the fact tht OHs mum and OH (although i know if she hadnt suggested it he never would have) made me feel stupid for worrying so much has really pissed me off. you would think she would understand, what with being a mum also and all!
what do you guys think?? x
well anyway, i insisted that he got lifted out the car (think she was scared the carseat would scrape the paint or something!). dex stayed asleep, and all was fine.
but its just so annoying. i really dont think im overprotective with dex, i think im the right amount of protective/caring/responsible. i would never have forgiven myself if something had happened to him. his safety is paramount to me. and the fact tht OHs mum and OH (although i know if she hadnt suggested it he never would have) made me feel stupid for worrying so much has really pissed me off. you would think she would understand, what with being a mum also and all!
what do you guys think?? x