Planned or unplanned?!?!

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Planned or unplanned?!?!

  1. Planned

  2. Unplanned

  3. Weren't being careful but weren't trying

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  1. ASD123456

    ASD123456 Well-Known Member

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    Hi,

    Just out of interest, were your pregnancies planned or unplanned?

    Personally, mine was unplanned although I couldn't be happier now. It was a massive shock to begin with though, but I always knew I wanted children, now is just a little earlier than I anticipated.

    Alex x
     
  2. Emma58

    Emma58 Well-Known Member

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    Ours was planned but still came as a shock because I had convinced myself
    it would take ages to conceive. I was pregnant after 2 months.
     
  3. BeckyJ

    BeckyJ Well-Known Member

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    ours was planned

    we had been trying since april and caught in september and although that isnt long it felt like a lifetime
     
  4. Bee

    Bee Well-Known Member

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    unplanned

    a poll might show the answers easier ;)
     
  5. Little miss pink

    Little miss pink Well-Known Member

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    My was planned but it still came as a massive shock as i had just paid for a fertility consultation and just about to start treatment and i'd taken one dose of the drugs I'd been given and on the same day got my BFP (was asked to take a test to rule out the pains i was getting weren't that i wasn't already preggers and i was :cheer: ). I got a BFP on CD118 i think i'd gone around 4 months without a cycle but i must of had a surprise OV!

    So pleased i took that test and that my fertility drugs were delayed the alternative doesn't bear thiking about ! :wall:

    The rest is history x

    LMP x
     
  6. jendav81

    jendav81 Well-Known Member

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    I'm the same as Emma58 we weren't really "trying" as such, I just came off the pill to see what happened and got BFP after 3months. :D
     
  7. debecca

    debecca Well-Known Member

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    Unplanned, although we were going to start trying in 2008. We've been together 5 years and are married so it doesn't matter either way really.

    Connie definitely deserves to be here though, she is still alive despite contraception, two bouts of food poisoning, an 8000-mile flight and me as a mother :rotfl:
     
  8. debecca

    debecca Well-Known Member

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    Aw Little Miss Pink that's a fantastic story - lucky you :cheer:
     
  9. bhe101

    bhe101 Well-Known Member

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    planned although it still hasnt sunk in yet!!
     
  10. ASD123456

    ASD123456 Well-Known Member

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    Bee- thanks for the tip, I still haven't learned all these forum tricks yet, only just got the hang of smileys and abbreviations!

    Wow debecca your LO really did beat the odds.


    My OH was due to fly off to another country (US) for work, two days after we found out, I had also been taking the pill since I was 16 so the baby was quite detrmined to be here!
     
  11. sarafet

    sarafet Well-Known Member

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    unplanned, still on the pill but no condoms :lol:

    couldn't be happier though :cheer:
     
  12. sarah113

    sarah113 Well-Known Member

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    First-planned
    second-unplanned
    third- unplanned (was on the pill)
    forth-unplanned (also was on the pill)
    This time it was kinda planned, we started trying then the month i fell we agreed to stop trying and start trying in a year as we were having a few problems
     
  13. Rachel

    Rachel Well-Known Member

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    Unplanned (Using condoms)

    We had been talking about ttc then things between us went abit wrong so put it off then I find out im pregnant lol. Couldn't be happier now to be pregnant though :D

    Nathan was planned.
     
  14. 1sttimemum

    1sttimemum Well-Known Member

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    Me and my partner have been together for 3 years, we have our own house and both want to marry each other and have each others babies. I'd got laxidasical with the pill and just stopped it, but even after not taking the pill, it took us over a year before anything happend!!
    So we were planning, it just happened a little earlier

    XX
     
  15. Babylicious

    Babylicious Well-Known Member

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    paris was very unplanned but this one was carefully planned :D
     
  16. Bee

    Bee Well-Known Member

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    No problem ;) Glad I have some use :lol:
     
  17. kalia

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    Planned. We were aiming to get pregnant in October but lots of people said that it doesn't just happen that you get pregnant straight away so we thought we might start trying (or rather, stop using condoms) earlier. I know the date my baby was conceived :D OH is delighted I'm pregnant but disappointed that we didn't actually have to try :rotfl:

    My mum asked me a few months ago how long it had taken for me to get pregnant and when I said 'not long' she told me that we are a very fertile family - when she came off the pill she didn't even have a period before getting pregnant with me and my aunt was similar. Is it just me or is that information you should share long in advance? :rotfl:
     
  18. charlie84

    charlie84 Well-Known Member

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    It was planned. I came off the depo jab in Oct 06. It took till July 07 to get our BFP.
     
  19. loz

    loz Well-Known Member

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    We got married in May '06 and TTC from Sept '06, I got preggie in Dec and then we miscarried in Feb '07. After recovering from that (it's so much worse than you think) I conceived again pretty quickly (Aug'07) :D We cant wait . . .
     
  20. jodie_honey

    jodie_honey Well-Known Member

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    i was on the pill so wasnt planned but over the moon it happend, i was on antibiotics which made the pill ineffective and i know the date i concieved lol x
     

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