Partners / husbands / boyfriends and Porn...

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Julia, Jan 11, 2008.

  1. Julia

    Julia Well-Known Member

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    Hi Everybody!

    Have not been on site for ages!! My little girl is 2 in April and me and DH have been struggling with our sex life since she has been born! Anyway, it is coming back together now slowly which I am pleased about. I have never really had anything against Porn but I just want to know if anybody elses husbands or partners have DVDs (2 in total) and have it downloaded onto their phones. Girls in work say it is a "bloke thing" and that their hubbys have some at times. Got home tonight and he has been on the internet also (3 sites in total). Is this normal? (Am I not a prude by the way!!!).

    Julia xxxxxxxxx
     
  2. Craig

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    Yea, its natural bloke thing id say lol never really bothered with it personally as id rather just do it :? but ho hum... its a very normal thing to a guy! :lol: and to be fair... doesnt sound like he has all that much anyway, know people that have a computer full of it - then a DVD collection that surpasses their normal DVD collection! :roll: lol
     
  3. Julia

    Julia Well-Known Member

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    Thanks Craig!

    Feel better now. I have overlooked it for the ten years that we have been together (married for 3).... We used to watch it together but since the baby has been born we are on "Planet Parent"!!! I just wondered if I should be worried about the amount he has - but it sounds like a very small collection compared to some other men!! That's fine then - JUST KEEPING A CHECK ON THINGS.......any other responses welcome!

    Interesting to hear from a bloke's point of view also - thanks very much x

    Julia xx
     
  4. Tillytots

    Tillytots Well-Known Member

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    hey Julia :wave:

    I have more porn than your husband so I think you're ok :lol:
    My other half doesnt have any now as its all with me but he sed to have sooo much where he used to sell it.

    x
     
  5. Julia

    Julia Well-Known Member

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    Thanks Tillytots!

    I am so glad I posted my problem - he is normal then!! You too have made me feel better........gone are our nights of passion - now we have to plan them in advance between work and sleep!! Thought the porn was beginning to take over......thought I had a perv of a husband or a sex addict!!!!

    Thanks again for taking the time to reply!!!

    Julia xxx
     
  6. Snuggle

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    Totally normal, my hubby has loads of DVD's :lol:
     
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    I think that sounds totally normal :)
     
  8. mrs_tommo22

    mrs_tommo22 Well-Known Member

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    My oh watches porn every night and so do i, very normal :wink:
     
  9. paiges_mummy

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    :shock: sarah
     
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    I'd say it's totally normal and nothing to be threatened by.
    Perhaps you could suggest you watch it together and share the experience which might help you with bonding sexually again :wink:
     
  11. trixipaws

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    its very normal for hubbys/boyfs to hav porn. :hug:
     
  12. Julia

    Julia Well-Known Member

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    Thanks Everybody!!!

    I feel great now!! Felt a bit silly posting my problem but I am glad I did now!!!! Isn't this site fab? You are all so kind in sharing your personal details with me - feel so much better......anymore replies very welcome!!!

    Julia x
     
  13. Tillytots

    Tillytots Well-Known Member

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    aww dont feel silly! its important to talk about things you're worried about. Most of ther time you discover its nothing to fret about and totally normal but unless you talk about it you sit and drive yourself crazy :) glad you feel ok now :hug:

    xxxx
     
  14. paradysso

    paradysso Well-Known Member

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    i think my OH is un-normal he doesnt have any :shock: he doesnt even watch it. he says it boring and repetitive and rather just get on with having sex then watch it lol
     
  15. Tillytots

    Tillytots Well-Known Member

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    my OH hasnt got any either...with the exception of a few vids/pics of me...he is the same and thinks its repetetive and most of the women in them have wonky bad boob jobs :rotfl: I look after our collection but tbh hardly ever watch it.
     
  16. Craig

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    :lol: im the same, its all the same, and too full of fake lookin people, i do have quite a bit - but its all stuff thats been made by me an ex gf's...so does that really count :lol:
     
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    my boyfriend has like a whole draw full of porn dvds! lol and he regularly swaps them at work when he gets bored with them! haha :rotfl:
     
  18. *saulino*

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    Hi

    I have to say we do not own any but know tonsof our friends that own tons !!
     
  19. budge

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    well i would say its normal. my hubby loves to look at females. We have DVD's and we watch them together. Id rather he be into females than males :lol: at least then hes normal .
     

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