Well girls, I'm proof that if you stop trying, you get caught, and I've never been happier!!!!!!!!!!! Here's me brief story; We were trying for about 6 months, and after I had an early m/c ( v. early, I didn't even know I was preg) last month we decided to stop trying. But mainly because I start uni next Sept, so we were gong to leave it till next summer to start trying again. Also, the doctor thought there was something wrong with me after I went to him with v.painful periods etc, so he reffered me to the gyno at the hospital. I was due to go on Jan 16th! So, we had sex twice last month and here I am. (AND I went to the toilet straight after, both times!!!!!) After all the prescise bding, the lying down for 30mins after, the medicine drinking, checking cm, and a bad attempt at charting. Nothing matters, just go with the flow and it happens. I'm sooooo looking forward to this, I'm really excited!