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So here I am in LTTTC - I should have joined here ages ago but I suppose I was just hoping a miracle would happen.
I’m guessing the ladies reading this, already know me so are intrigued to know the outcome of our follow up meeting with the consultant yesterday.
My results from the HSG was all clear so that’s good to know. OH’s results not so good. He’s morphology has gone from 1% to 0% - to say we are absolutely gutted is an understatement
There are then, the consultant handed me over a form with a list of IVF clinics and told me to go away and choose which one would work for us. It was all very overwhelming and I walked out there with a banging headache.
I am really hurting inside but as you can imagine the OH felt like absolute shit so I put on a front and made sure he knew it wasn’t he’s fault and we are going to get through this together.
So the next steps for us: we did a bit of research last night ordered a shit load of new vitamins on amazon that specifically will help morphology, we have both decided we are going to give up drinking until December, he is a social smoker so smokes when he has had a drink that will now also stop, cutting out caffeine (even though we rarely drink coffee), we already eat clean throughout the week we just go a bit over the top at weekends with shit good so that will dramatically change too and OH is going to get back into the gym. Am thinking of joining too?!
I’m not sure how long we are going to be waiting on the list for IVF, we will know more once we have our next appointment with the IVF specialist nurse but our main aim is to try and get he’s morphology up so we have a chance of falling naturally and just to get us super fit and healthy for when we do start IVF.
This all still feels like a blur atm so I’m not sure how I am feeling but I suppose I am going to go through every emotion in the next however months. I just never thought I would be in this situation, but life gives you lemons right?
Any advice for me on this journey would be really appreciated xx
I’m guessing the ladies reading this, already know me so are intrigued to know the outcome of our follow up meeting with the consultant yesterday.
My results from the HSG was all clear so that’s good to know. OH’s results not so good. He’s morphology has gone from 1% to 0% - to say we are absolutely gutted is an understatement
There are then, the consultant handed me over a form with a list of IVF clinics and told me to go away and choose which one would work for us. It was all very overwhelming and I walked out there with a banging headache.
I am really hurting inside but as you can imagine the OH felt like absolute shit so I put on a front and made sure he knew it wasn’t he’s fault and we are going to get through this together.
So the next steps for us: we did a bit of research last night ordered a shit load of new vitamins on amazon that specifically will help morphology, we have both decided we are going to give up drinking until December, he is a social smoker so smokes when he has had a drink that will now also stop, cutting out caffeine (even though we rarely drink coffee), we already eat clean throughout the week we just go a bit over the top at weekends with shit good so that will dramatically change too and OH is going to get back into the gym. Am thinking of joining too?!
I’m not sure how long we are going to be waiting on the list for IVF, we will know more once we have our next appointment with the IVF specialist nurse but our main aim is to try and get he’s morphology up so we have a chance of falling naturally and just to get us super fit and healthy for when we do start IVF.
This all still feels like a blur atm so I’m not sure how I am feeling but I suppose I am going to go through every emotion in the next however months. I just never thought I would be in this situation, but life gives you lemons right?
Any advice for me on this journey would be really appreciated xx
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