iv been waiting 8 weeks for payment off this women. She said she sent a cheque but it was held up in the strike for 4 weeks!!! then she took another week to ask who the cheque was payable to. I opened and closed the dispute and shes sent me this: 'I am being genuine. Unfortunately I cannot control Royal mail and the postal service and therefore i do not accept responsibility for the cheque not having reached you. I have limited access to a computer which means i cannot surf ebay everyday and check my messsages so it took me a while to get back to you on each occassion. My father in law has cancer and is in hospital so i have been spending a lot of my time there. so sorry that i have let things slip a bit but my personal life has been upside down. i would ask you to remove the unpaid item strike and i will forward payment.' the item has been relisted and if i undo the strike i wont get my fee's back. I think im going to get my 1st negative feedback!