Ok I have been with my partner for almost a year. I knew he smoked weed when we got together and he knew I didn't like it, but he didn't smoke it around me so I could turn a blind eye to it. After all it's his body.
I'm now 10 and a half weeks pregnant. He has promised since we found out I was expecting he would quit. But that he needed to wean himself off it as he has been a daily smoker for over 20 years and he was addicted. So I said ok.
That was 6 weeks ago. He claims he has cut down considerably. I don't agree. At the point he said he would cut down he was between jobs and smoking day and night. Now back in full time employment, althugh he doesn't smoke whilst at work, in the evenings at on days off he still smokes the same as he did then. So yes technically he has cut down, but only cause he won't smoke it at work!
i don't know how long to give him, before I say enough is enough. He knows that me and him will be finished if he doesn't quit. I don't want a "stoner" as a father for my child. I don't want to look like I condone it to my new child and that it is acceptable.
in every other way this man is perfect and I love him to bits. Am I over reacting?
xxx
I'm now 10 and a half weeks pregnant. He has promised since we found out I was expecting he would quit. But that he needed to wean himself off it as he has been a daily smoker for over 20 years and he was addicted. So I said ok.
That was 6 weeks ago. He claims he has cut down considerably. I don't agree. At the point he said he would cut down he was between jobs and smoking day and night. Now back in full time employment, althugh he doesn't smoke whilst at work, in the evenings at on days off he still smokes the same as he did then. So yes technically he has cut down, but only cause he won't smoke it at work!
i don't know how long to give him, before I say enough is enough. He knows that me and him will be finished if he doesn't quit. I don't want a "stoner" as a father for my child. I don't want to look like I condone it to my new child and that it is acceptable.
in every other way this man is perfect and I love him to bits. Am I over reacting?
xxx