rheannymac
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Today I had a conversation with my mum about her friends grandson who is a wee brat, sounds horrible but he's not a nice little boy. He's very badly behaved and never takes a telling. My mum made a comment something like "You'll need to make sure Harrys not like that" and oh my days it's given me the fear!
I've got to make sure Harry grows into a respectful, polite, good mannered, well behaved little boy. I'm the one who has to teach him right from wrong, I need to make sure he knows how to be well behaved and not throw tantrums and be bad. I need to make sure he knows how bad it is to hit or call people names. I need to make sure he thrives and reaches all his goals and dreams. Even things that seem ridiculous like, I need to make sure he knows that taking drugs is bad and should never be done. I need to make sure he knows how bad and horrific certain crimes are so that he never goes on to commit any...I know this all seems very dramatic but holy crap its only just really dawned on me what a massive deal that is!
What if I don't do it right? What if I don't bring him up to be a good person with good values?
I'm sitting here thinking about it all and I like to think I'm a good person. Yes I've made stupid mistakes as everyone has but I've never committed a crime, I've always respected people, I'm not a nasty person, I've always been a very positive person and like to think all this comes across in my personality and that this will all rub off on Harry.
I'm just so worried that I'm simply just not a good enough mummy to teach him everything he needs to be taught! :'(
I've got to make sure Harry grows into a respectful, polite, good mannered, well behaved little boy. I'm the one who has to teach him right from wrong, I need to make sure he knows how to be well behaved and not throw tantrums and be bad. I need to make sure he knows how bad it is to hit or call people names. I need to make sure he thrives and reaches all his goals and dreams. Even things that seem ridiculous like, I need to make sure he knows that taking drugs is bad and should never be done. I need to make sure he knows how bad and horrific certain crimes are so that he never goes on to commit any...I know this all seems very dramatic but holy crap its only just really dawned on me what a massive deal that is!
What if I don't do it right? What if I don't bring him up to be a good person with good values?
I'm sitting here thinking about it all and I like to think I'm a good person. Yes I've made stupid mistakes as everyone has but I've never committed a crime, I've always respected people, I'm not a nasty person, I've always been a very positive person and like to think all this comes across in my personality and that this will all rub off on Harry.
I'm just so worried that I'm simply just not a good enough mummy to teach him everything he needs to be taught! :'(