Hi everyone, im new here, so I hope I’m doing this correctly.
I would need your advice I’m 30 years old and for a few months now I am only having my period for 2 days (last time it’s only been 1.5 days) rather than 6 which was normal. I also noticed being super dry during my circle and pretty much 0 discharge. My Doctor initially said it might be due to lockdown.. and since this had not changed in 3 months and I’m not stressed, we started considering things like Pocs or early perimenopause. I had also taken some pregnancy tests (as one never knows) and when they showed up as negative I was very disappointed.
My fiancé and I always spoke about having children and we set a lose date for end of this year to try.. now with the fear of having fertility issues we decided to start giving it a try now.. thinking my chances of getting pregnant are very small. in the meantime my blood work came back and all hormonal levels are within limits.
For months I was thinking how lovely it would be to have a baby, but now I am absolutely terrified that I got pregnant first time round (and we had a lot of sex, apologies for the tmi) to the point that I really hope that nothing has happened and it would feel like the worst thing in the world if it had. We are also getting married in July, and prone to move to another country this year (once the pandemic is manageable). Also my parents live in another country. I thought of all the factors before we stated trying this month and thought, that it’s manageable and okay. But now I’m just absolutely terrified and think I’m stupid to have started trying for a baby and just hope that nothing has happened..
Can anyone relate, is this normal?
I would need your advice I’m 30 years old and for a few months now I am only having my period for 2 days (last time it’s only been 1.5 days) rather than 6 which was normal. I also noticed being super dry during my circle and pretty much 0 discharge. My Doctor initially said it might be due to lockdown.. and since this had not changed in 3 months and I’m not stressed, we started considering things like Pocs or early perimenopause. I had also taken some pregnancy tests (as one never knows) and when they showed up as negative I was very disappointed.
My fiancé and I always spoke about having children and we set a lose date for end of this year to try.. now with the fear of having fertility issues we decided to start giving it a try now.. thinking my chances of getting pregnant are very small. in the meantime my blood work came back and all hormonal levels are within limits.
For months I was thinking how lovely it would be to have a baby, but now I am absolutely terrified that I got pregnant first time round (and we had a lot of sex, apologies for the tmi) to the point that I really hope that nothing has happened and it would feel like the worst thing in the world if it had. We are also getting married in July, and prone to move to another country this year (once the pandemic is manageable). Also my parents live in another country. I thought of all the factors before we stated trying this month and thought, that it’s manageable and okay. But now I’m just absolutely terrified and think I’m stupid to have started trying for a baby and just hope that nothing has happened..
Can anyone relate, is this normal?