not TTC - am i having an MC

[lydlyd198]

Hiya ! Sorry if this is the wrong forum to be posting in I'm a bit lost (and desperate)

I have an 11 month old and I am not TTC. Recently had sex unprotected but he pulled out so we thought there was only a small chance i could be pregnant. I started bleeding shortly afterwards (days) and haven't stopped since, that was over 3 weeks ago now. We did have sex before then (again unprotected) so about 5 weeks ago and again he said he didn't cum.

The bleeding isn't slowing down or easing at all, infact since Friday it's been worse then every before with clots & pain

Pregnancy test sunday night was negative....

Advice please??????

 

[sarahmc89]

If you're not due your period I'd see a doctor...

Sorry if that's not much help.

 

[lydlyd198]

My periods have always been all over the place so I never know when I am due on that's the problem.

Any reply is of help to me at the moment so thank you for taking the time to do so

 

[sarahmc89]

Hope you get a solution soon. I know the feeling of all over the place periods, and some being so seriously heavy you think you're probably going to bleed out. Just hope you feel better soon.

 

[Syd43]

I've just had a miscarriage at 8 weeks and only bled for 3 weeks with just a few days of clotting and pain so I doubt if you are having a miscarriage, I would think it would be too early for that amount of bleeding etc. Plus as of yesterday I'm still showing a positive on a pregnancy test. Obviously I'm not an expert, that's just my initial thought.

Either way, it's not normal to bleed heavily and clot for three weeks, I would definitely see a doctor.

Also, if you really aren't ttc, the withdrawal method isn't reliable.