not TTC - am i having an MC

Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by lydlyd198, Sep 20, 2016.

  1. lydlyd198

    lydlyd198 Member

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    Hiya ! Sorry if this is the wrong forum to be posting in I'm a bit lost (and desperate)

    I have an 11 month old and I am not TTC. Recently had sex unprotected but he pulled out so we thought there was only a small chance i could be pregnant. I started bleeding shortly afterwards (days) and haven't stopped since, that was over 3 weeks ago now. We did have sex before then (again unprotected) so about 5 weeks ago and again he said he didn't cum.

    The bleeding isn't slowing down or easing at all, infact since Friday it's been worse then every before with clots & pain

    Pregnancy test sunday night was negative....

    Advice please??????
     
  2. sarahmc89

    sarahmc89 Well-Known Member

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    If you're not due your period I'd see a doctor...

    Sorry if that's not much help.
     
  3. lydlyd198

    lydlyd198 Member

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    My periods have always been all over the place so I never know when I am due on that's the problem.

    Any reply is of help to me at the moment so thank you for taking the time to do so
     
  4. sarahmc89

    sarahmc89 Well-Known Member

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    Hope you get a solution soon. I know the feeling of all over the place periods, and some being so seriously heavy you think you're probably going to bleed out. Just hope you feel better soon.
     
  5. Syd43

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    I've just had a miscarriage at 8 weeks and only bled for 3 weeks with just a few days of clotting and pain so I doubt if you are having a miscarriage, I would think it would be too early for that amount of bleeding etc. Plus as of yesterday I'm still showing a positive on a pregnancy test. Obviously I'm not an expert, that's just my initial thought.

    Either way, it's not normal to bleed heavily and clot for three weeks, I would definitely see a doctor.

    Also, if you really aren't ttc, the withdrawal method isn't reliable.
     

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