Not sure if I'm strong enough for this...

[SmallPurpleCat]

Hi all,

Sorry for a 'down' post...

Well...yesterday I found out that two more friends are pregnant which firstly made me feel jealous and then I got upset thinking "It'll never be me etc" and then I have started feeling ovulation/ovary pain (only on CD6) so I am worried that something is wrong so that just made me think even more that I won't be able to get pregnant etc.

I'm scared that I'm not strong enough to do this and just far too negative.

 

[frankie707]

Ahh hon, try and stay positive. How long have you been trying?

 

[BUGGY82]

Oh honey, it'll happen I'm sure. Just try not to stress and stay positive.
How long have you been trying??

 

[klam]

big hugs! findin out friends r pregnant isnt easy especially if its been a long wait 4 u?! just keepin tryin hun, ull get there wen the time is rite. let ur friends know that ur a little sensitive about the subject so they dont go on about baby 2 much around u, sure they will understand. good luck xxx

 

[Chellybaby88]

Hi SPC

I know how you feel. A few girls at my work have got pregnant and have had their babies in the time I have been trying. I want to be happy for them but inside I hate them. Baby jealousy i think.

Things will work out and I know it is hard but it will happen eventually if you want it enough

 

[SmallPurpleCat]

Thanks guys - you are all right, of course! Exactly what DH is saying too but it's such a rollercoaster - one minute you feel positive and the next, really negative...

We've only been trying for 1 month so I really shouldn't be moaning I know, but I didn't think it would be as all consuming as it is!!

I'm still worried about the pain I am having too but not sure going to the docs would get me anywhere...

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Ah SPC have a (((HUG)))..... whether youve been trying for a month or a year its a lifetime when you want a baby that much....so dont worry about feeling like you shouldnt be 'moaning'! But yes I felt like that too last month...didnt quite realise just how much TTC was going to take over....must admit (atm) Im feeling pretty calm about it all and just going with the flow to a certain extent....but I know when it comes round to 2ww I will be scatty again! Dont worry tho it will happen and as much as I should practice what I preach....stay positive and relaxed as much as poss xxx

 

[MrsR]

Hey hon I felt the exact same as you! I thought there was something wrong with me even though I had no basis for thinking that, I was trying for 4 months which isn't a long time but it felt like forever! x Big hugs x I didn't know about OPK kits but now I do I'd def suggest using them! That way you're in no doubt if you're ovulating sweetheart. I'm sure you're absolutely fine so don't get too disheartened and good luck!

 

[JJ Mum]

Keepy chirpy , you will get there , and treasure your bump all the more for the wait

Good luck TTC this month

 

[kellylou]

i know how ur feeling hun I have had that whilst waiting ttc and now I am here its even harder xx

 

[Chazabell]

Awwwww hun, positive mental attitude.....thats one thing ive learnt TTC, and this is the end of my 2nd month. Im annoyed to think about all te times i'd missed my pill or been poorly when on the pill....and now im not on it.......NOTHING is happening (or so it seems like that) My OH and i havent told anyone were TTC because we cant be doing with all the questions about how were getting on etc etc. But stay strong.......were all here for you xxx

 

[CatBana]

know exactly how you feel hun, it made my heart sink the other day when a friend said she's pregnant, but I am happy for her of course. Just wish it wasn't so hard to have to wait every month only to be let down, and wish I didn't always feel the need to be honest and let people steamroll over me, like you I didn't want to tell anyone but I mentioned I wanted another one and then a few 'friends' feel they can ask impertinent questions! I always convince myself I've got symptoms each month ,wish I could stop!
Hope it's our baby time soon x

 

[bwakeling]

Keep your chin up and keep plugging away, it'll happen eventually. Took me and my wife 12 months.