Im back on nights this week, tonight is my last one thanks god as tonight and the last 3 nights oran has not really settled for his daddy. When I was off work OH would put oran to bed 2/3 times a week and mostly it went ok, he always went down better and quicker for me but he was with me all day. Now OH has been putting him to bed and he is waking after an hour or so crying / screaming, and will only stop when OH pats his back, as soon as he stops and tried to leave the room Oran starts screaming / crying again. He also is waking more than normal in the night, he usually wakes 3/4 times but goes back off with a quick pat and dummy in, but he is not going back off for him so OH is resorting to giving him milk to get him off...............anyone know why Oran is doing this? He does have a cold right now, could this be a reason (do you get cold when teething? as last time bottom teeth came through he was like this and with cold and now top teeth comming through?), could it be he is missing me, how does he know im not there as daddy puts him to bed every tues night when im not there with no problem when I go swimming? HELP as I dont want OH to be giving him Milk, I cant stop this if im not there though!