Not looking good. 2nd Scan booked to check size

Discussion in 'First Trimester' started by BTurley01, Oct 19, 2016.

  1. BTurley01

    BTurley01 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2016
    Messages:
    46
    Likes Received:
    0
    My GP sent me for a scan this morning as i went to see them because i have had some bleeding and stomach cramps so thought best getbit checked. Not good news and not bad news.....so we all think I am 9 weeks gone. The scan shows 6 weeks due to the size of the featus. Now the dates could be wrong and everything is fine and I just have some breakthrough bleeding but also I could be 9 weeks and the featus is not growing.


    So they can't do a lot at this stage. I have to go back in 10 days.....next Friday at 9am this scan will tell us what we know. If no growing then that's it :-( if it had grown then great dates are wrong and all okm she said it really is 50. 50 but we have been told to prepare for the worst. This is our first pregnancy and I know that we cannot do anything in the next 10 days to change anything so need to just not worry and see what next Friday brings.

    Anyone have any experiences of this?
    I have bad stomach cramps so I can only imagine the worst is going to happen on Friday:-(
     
  2. Emily0505

    Emily0505 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jul 22, 2011
    Messages:
    11,361
    Likes Received:
    1
    My second pregnancy, I had some spotting at 8+4.

    We went for a scan to be told that baby was only measuring 6 weeks and that either my dates were wrong or the pregnancy wasn't progressing. I had to be rescanned in 14 days as per their policy.

    I went back after 7 days as my spotting got heavier and there was no change and I miscarried naturally at home a few days later. This was confirmed when I went back for the scan at 14 days.

    I know there have been ladies who have measured significantly behind but gone back for a rescan and all has been well. Sadly this was not the case for me

    The wait between scans really is horrendous and I'm so sorry that you are in this position. Fingers crossed that you get good news at your next scan hun.

    XX
     
  3. nikkix86

    nikkix86 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 14, 2016
    Messages:
    2,195
    Likes Received:
    0
    I had some bleeding and went for a scan to be told I was earlier and only had a sac went back 10 days later and baby had caught up. the wait is agonising! try and keep busy keeping my fx for you x
     
    #3 nikkix86, Oct 19, 2016
    Last edited: Oct 19, 2016
  4. BTurley01

    BTurley01 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2016
    Messages:
    46
    Likes Received:
    0
    Awww I'm so sorry for you. Thank you. Yea the wait is already horrendous and got 9 days to go! My cramps are bad but bleeding not too bad so I really don't know
     
  5. BTurley01

    BTurley01 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2016
    Messages:
    46
    Likes Received:
    0
    Thanks Nikki
     
  6. ams25

    ams25 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Dec 19, 2011
    Messages:
    1,297
    Likes Received:
    0
    I'm so sorry you're going through this lovely :( how sure are you on your dates? Keeping everything crossed xxx
     
  7. nikkix86

    nikkix86 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 14, 2016
    Messages:
    2,195
    Likes Received:
    0
    the wait is awful I must of Googled constantly for 10 days with all different answers lol hope it's good news for you
     
  8. BTurley01

    BTurley01 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2016
    Messages:
    46
    Likes Received:
    0
    Not sure to be honest lol well about 90% sure we think it's hard to know lol yea really want next Friday to come quick. Cramps are still bad though :-( feels like period cramps. But don't know if that's normal or not.
     
  9. BTurley01

    BTurley01 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2016
    Messages:
    46
    Likes Received:
    0
    Kept awake most of the night with stomach cramps and more bleeding :-( I think it's safe to say we should expect the worst next Friday :-( :-( :-(
     
  10. ams25

    ams25 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Dec 19, 2011
    Messages:
    1,297
    Likes Received:
    0
    Sending you lots of love Bturley ♡ we're all here xxx
     
  11. BTurley01

    BTurley01 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2016
    Messages:
    46
    Likes Received:
    0
  12. Eryinera

    Eryinera Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Dec 19, 2013
    Messages:
    7,618
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hugs x I hope you get good news on Fri x
     
  13. BTurley01

    BTurley01 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2016
    Messages:
    46
    Likes Received:
    0
  14. BTurley01

    BTurley01 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2016
    Messages:
    46
    Likes Received:
    0
    My bleeping and Cramps have reduced a lot today. Not sure if that's a good sign or bad sign. Roll on next Friday! Hate not knowing.
     
  15. BunnyN

    BunnyN Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jul 14, 2012
    Messages:
    5,310
    Likes Received:
    2
    The waiting is horrid, hugs.
     
  16. Francesca89

    Francesca89 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 28, 2016
    Messages:
    53
    Likes Received:
    0
    Fingers crossed for you!!
     
  17. Papermoon

    Papermoon Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2016
    Messages:
    792
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hopefully it's just a breakthrough period and all is well with baby.
     
  18. BunnyN

    BunnyN Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jul 14, 2012
    Messages:
    5,310
    Likes Received:
    2
    How are you doing?
     
  19. JamsMom

    JamsMom Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Oct 26, 2016
    Messages:
    158
    Likes Received:
    0
    Good luck, I really hope it's good news!
     
  20. kabuk1

    kabuk1 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 14, 2016
    Messages:
    900
    Likes Received:
    0
    So sorry you're going through this. Hoping everything turns out alright. The not knowing is difficult. Fingers crossed for you.
     

Share This Page

  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice