KarolinaMoon
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Hi ladies,
Not really sure where to start tbh! I had my 2nd baby girl last April and from day 1 she has suffered intensely with reflux and possible dairy intolerance. She is now finally under a consultant care and is on lansoprazole and caro bel with every feed along with neocate formulae. It has been an absolute hell for the past almost year...and I hate to say that but it is the truth. My daughter us the most lovely and beautiful girl....but has screamed 24 7 in pain for her first 5 months of life ...and d then been unsettled most of the time until the last couple of months. Only now is she starting to settle at 11 months old...but still waking up about 3 or 4 times during the night.
I have kept going, almost on a fight or flight mode for the past 10 months....knowing that I had to take care of my daughter. I also have a 2 and a half year old to take care of....so you can imagine!!! Now that my daughter is starting to settle however it's like I'm giving up!!! I feel like I can't cope anymore!!! My husband has to work almost around the clock....and he does try and do what he can when he can....but he is up working until 3 or 4 am many a night.
I have been to my doctor in tears in the past couple of weeks. I just feel like it's a struggle to even do the simple things now....I feel like I'm being lazy but know that it is more than just laziness!!
I'm also due to start back at work in a week or two and just can't see how that is even possible! I feel like time has just flown by and I'm still stuck in the trying to cope and getting things together phase of the first couple of months!!!
I have no family close by, so I have no support except from what my husband can offer.
Anyone any ideas on what I can or should do? Xxx
Not really sure where to start tbh! I had my 2nd baby girl last April and from day 1 she has suffered intensely with reflux and possible dairy intolerance. She is now finally under a consultant care and is on lansoprazole and caro bel with every feed along with neocate formulae. It has been an absolute hell for the past almost year...and I hate to say that but it is the truth. My daughter us the most lovely and beautiful girl....but has screamed 24 7 in pain for her first 5 months of life ...and d then been unsettled most of the time until the last couple of months. Only now is she starting to settle at 11 months old...but still waking up about 3 or 4 times during the night.
I have kept going, almost on a fight or flight mode for the past 10 months....knowing that I had to take care of my daughter. I also have a 2 and a half year old to take care of....so you can imagine!!! Now that my daughter is starting to settle however it's like I'm giving up!!! I feel like I can't cope anymore!!! My husband has to work almost around the clock....and he does try and do what he can when he can....but he is up working until 3 or 4 am many a night.
I have been to my doctor in tears in the past couple of weeks. I just feel like it's a struggle to even do the simple things now....I feel like I'm being lazy but know that it is more than just laziness!!
I'm also due to start back at work in a week or two and just can't see how that is even possible! I feel like time has just flown by and I'm still stuck in the trying to cope and getting things together phase of the first couple of months!!!
I have no family close by, so I have no support except from what my husband can offer.
Anyone any ideas on what I can or should do? Xxx