Hi Everyone,
This isn't going to be a cheery post i'm afraid but just feel I need to write something down.
About 6 months ago my Dad started to get a really bad backache, he's had it on & off for longer but it started to get worse in the summer, anyway after many, many trips to the docs ( who thought it was a trapped nerve) he had many sessions with the Chiropractor & then the Osteopath & has been on loads of different kinds of pain relief but nothing seemed to be working.
Last week he was in agony & started to lose the use of his right leg, after a few days he couldn't use it at all & then his left leg started to go. Obviously he couldn't walk properly & was confined to his bed, with my poor mum trying to help him to the toilet.
It got to the point where he couldn't walk at all so Mum called an ambulance. The paramedics said to contact the docs in the morning so he could be refered to another hospital other than the one the ambulance had to take them to (stupid in itself!) the next day the doc came round & ordered an ambulance to take him to the hospital, this took a staggering 7 hours to turn up, only for him to wait on a trolley bed all night until they transfered him to yet another hospital (in Brighton).
He had a MRI scan done and from this have found a tumour growing on his spinal cord & they seem to think it's cancerous because 9 years ago he had a cancerous kidney removed & they said fragments of that remained behind & have been growing ever since. This has in turn paralysed him & is destroying the vertebrae.
They were going to operate yeasterday but cancelled it at the last minute as the surgeon said he would bleed to death as the tumour has so many blood vessels so they've been doing more tests & things today to try & find out what to do next.
It looks like he'll be in hospital for a long time so we'll all be spending Xmas day in Brighton Hospital (not nice in itself - scummy!!).
So after me being really happy on Monday after my scan & finding out we're having a boy it's all gone pear shaped.
Sorry it's such a long post & not a happy one but I just wanted to get it off my chest a bit & to say I hope everyone has a great Christmas & New Year & enjoy every minute of it as you just don't know what's round the corner.
Love Nicki.xx
This isn't going to be a cheery post i'm afraid but just feel I need to write something down.
About 6 months ago my Dad started to get a really bad backache, he's had it on & off for longer but it started to get worse in the summer, anyway after many, many trips to the docs ( who thought it was a trapped nerve) he had many sessions with the Chiropractor & then the Osteopath & has been on loads of different kinds of pain relief but nothing seemed to be working.
Last week he was in agony & started to lose the use of his right leg, after a few days he couldn't use it at all & then his left leg started to go. Obviously he couldn't walk properly & was confined to his bed, with my poor mum trying to help him to the toilet.
It got to the point where he couldn't walk at all so Mum called an ambulance. The paramedics said to contact the docs in the morning so he could be refered to another hospital other than the one the ambulance had to take them to (stupid in itself!) the next day the doc came round & ordered an ambulance to take him to the hospital, this took a staggering 7 hours to turn up, only for him to wait on a trolley bed all night until they transfered him to yet another hospital (in Brighton).
He had a MRI scan done and from this have found a tumour growing on his spinal cord & they seem to think it's cancerous because 9 years ago he had a cancerous kidney removed & they said fragments of that remained behind & have been growing ever since. This has in turn paralysed him & is destroying the vertebrae.
They were going to operate yeasterday but cancelled it at the last minute as the surgeon said he would bleed to death as the tumour has so many blood vessels so they've been doing more tests & things today to try & find out what to do next.
It looks like he'll be in hospital for a long time so we'll all be spending Xmas day in Brighton Hospital (not nice in itself - scummy!!).
So after me being really happy on Monday after my scan & finding out we're having a boy it's all gone pear shaped.
Sorry it's such a long post & not a happy one but I just wanted to get it off my chest a bit & to say I hope everyone has a great Christmas & New Year & enjoy every minute of it as you just don't know what's round the corner.
Love Nicki.xx