No baby

[xshauna_bazx]

i have just been to the hospital and they couldnt find anything...nothing atall i had taken lots of tests all positive and still positive now. She wasent very helpful atall she done a test and said it hadent came up anything and it was negative but even the nurse said there was a faint line. they couldnt class it as a misscariage??? cos she neva saw the positive tests even though it was a clear blue! i had a bleed when my period was due for 2 days and that was nearly 2 week ago. im so confused...i still feel pregnant. why couldnt they class it as a miscariage they made me feel as if i was lying they wanted to get rid of me out of the room cos they were busy i think!!, i had already told my family i feel like i have let everyone down soooo much, it doesnt feel real i keep crying im so sad! i feel like everyone will blame me for telling them so early but i just couldnt keep it to myself

 

[peachypam]

Aww hun.Poor you.Stupid people at hospital!Don't worry about your family.They will be there to support you.Take carexxx

 

[Emmamb]

 

[Vickyxx]

ahh Shauna hunny I am so sorry to hear that, your family will be fine you shouldnt be worrying over that, I think hospitals are pot luck, some days you get a nice nurse other days you get an arse faced horse witch who obviously doesnt know the meaning of sympathy.

You can chat to us anytime you need xxxxx x x x x

 

[xshauna_bazx]

means alot to me thanks, i just dont know why i would of had a 2 day period when it was due and a pos test nearly 2 weeks after, why is our body so cruel xx

 

[hayels]

oh hun am really sorry sending lots of love xx

 

[bonbon]

hi hun so sorry for your loss sending you lots of love xx

 

[midnight]

how far along should you be?? if your period was due 2 weeks ago they wouldnt see nothing on the scan anyway!!

 

[xshauna_bazx]

just under 2 week ago, when it was due i had a bleed for 2 days then it just stopped. My friend thinks they have made a mistake because if it was a chemical i wouldnt still be gettin positives.
Would that of made me like 5 week

 

[Heulyn]

Oh hunni, it's so hard when you get a nasty nurse like that.

When I lost mine at 5+2weeks the nurse was the same with me, making out as though I was a liar.

Luckily I had the HPT and a previous V.early scan [4+5weeks] with a teeny weeny little baby-blob on file, so I shoved them in her face and made her apologise.

It's awful enough going through this, you'd think the nurses could be a little bit nicer!!

Hoping you're doing alright, I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Hugs to you!

 

[xshauna_bazx]

thanks i hate nurses sorry for your loss too x

 

[Heulyn]

thanks i hate nurses sorry for your loss too x

It's not all nurses that are bad, I promise, and don't let one nasty witch put you off.
Sometimes they forget that you're a real person with real feelings, and see it just as their job, but there are some wonderful nurses out there.
You just happened to catch a bad one

 

[xshauna_bazx]

thank you, i appreciate it x

 

[vixforever]

 

[JJ Mum]

Oh Shauna, I am so sorry , what strange nurses, it's not something you would ever lie about, or you wouldn't have gone to the hospital in the first place, sending you a big hug Xand thinking of you today

 

[xshauna_bazx]

yeah i know maybe next time. thanks for all your comments x

 

[Rowesb]

 

[Mervs Mum]

I know youre angry and disappointed but dont be so hard on yourself honey.

 

[ria__x]

aw keep your head up hun, none of this is your fault, and the nurses at your hospital need to be trained a bit better for treating you like that. so sorry hun. how is your OH coping? hope all is well soon xxxx

 

[xshauna_bazx]

yep i agree, he is gutted but seems to be coping better than me...i just cant accept it has happend. im still gettin positive tests i just keep hoping i concieved after the bleeding. thanks for the comment xxxxx