I can't beleive the in laws. We asked them if they wanted to spend time with dd1, this weekend. And they answer back was "you need to spend time with dd1 or she will feel left out" who the fuck do they think they are!!!! 😠😠😠😠😠 what the hell do they think we do all day every week. Do they think we dont do anything. Shes our daughter for goodness sake. They've made out we do nothing.Yet it's them that can't be fucked with their grandchildren unless it's the eldest who's 5 (OHs brothers daughter) And they have her every weekend. The in laws do spend money and spoil her in a sense and have taken her out a few times. But they still seem to favour the eldest.