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Hi all. My bub is 9 weeks old now and there’s SO many things I wish I knew about babies before she was born! So many things they don’t tell you at pregnancy classes (all they told me was how to breastfeed and safe-sleeping). I thought we could make a thread about these things to help make that first six weeks with a newborn easier for FTMs. So, what’s something you wish you were told about before you had your baby?
I wish I was told that newborn babies get overtired (and then it’s a real battle to get them to sleep) if they’re awake for more than 45mins, and some of them will do anything to stay awake! Babies will cry if they’re very tired, and most of them don’t just fall asleep on their own! You actually need to make them fall asleep. So, if you have a screaming newborn and they’re not hungry/have a clean nappy, try putting them to sleep!! This seems super obvious to me now but new-mum me had many days spent with a screaming baby and it never occurred to me that she was just tired.
I wish I was told that newborn babies get overtired (and then it’s a real battle to get them to sleep) if they’re awake for more than 45mins, and some of them will do anything to stay awake! Babies will cry if they’re very tired, and most of them don’t just fall asleep on their own! You actually need to make them fall asleep. So, if you have a screaming newborn and they’re not hungry/have a clean nappy, try putting them to sleep!! This seems super obvious to me now but new-mum me had many days spent with a screaming baby and it never occurred to me that she was just tired.