Hi, I'm new to this site and suppose I am looking for reassurance that I am normal and that other people have felt the same way as I do (with a good result in the end!). I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago and it was unplanned. I am in a good relationship but it wouldn't have been the timing of our choice as we wanted to get married etc before kids, although I did always think I would have them eventually. We've been to speak to a counsellor at the hospital and considered our options but I just can't justify termination - I am 35 next week, own home, good job and relationship - but I am still absolutely terrified about whether I am doing the right thing. I am scared of the changes and not leading the life I do now, but the thought of never having kids is equally terrifying. Is it normal to feel like this? Thanks (and sorry if this seems trivial).