Hi i cant tell you how excited i am to be finally TTC I had been resigned that my partner didnt want children and although difficult for me I respected his disission, however!........ He has changed his mind! not only that he is so excited and is doing everything he can to make it happen! this is the first month we are officially trying and Im so excited - however im also a little worried that we have left it too late as at 36 I know my chances have reduced and the risks are higher. Ive given up smoking, taking daily vits. and have reduced my coffee intake also not a drop of alcohol has passed my lips!....... I hope so much this happens, Ive never wanted anything so much in my life!