Did you find that your OH REALLY got on your nerves (more than usual! lol!) when handling the baby? He's great with the baby, don't get me wrong but I have to bite my tongue otherwise I would be nagging him constantly! I get SO impatient with him too - like when the baby is screaming and he seems to take an age to sort him out. It even bugged me last night that I wolfed my dinner down last night while he held the baby and then he ate his at a leisurely pace afterwards!! lol!