Ok, so I haven’t posted on the forum for a long time. I feel it’s the only place to get this out. I had 2 children almost 10 and almost 5. I don’t feel done but I’m scared to have a 3rd. I’ll be 32 this year. I’ve just finished a degree and have a lower paid year to do before I become fully qualified. My minds a muddle. I’d like another as I’ve 2 boys but obviously cannot pick to have a girl lol. I’m worried a third would put as at strain financially when we’re finally going to get on our feet. I worry that a potential 11 year gap between my oldest and would be youngest is too large. I don’t know if I should just be grateful for 2 healthy happy boys and enjoy them. On the other hand I’m scared that I’ll regret not having a third. Argh! I’m in a pickle. I hope this hasn’t come out all wrong but I’m all in a jumble over it all.