Try not to worry susy, it's weird for guys, they can't feel it or see it, so... my oh wants this baby as much as I do but once I said about how I didn't want to tell anyone till after the 12 week scan and why, he just kind of switched off - it's like if he wasn't allowed to get excited about it he'd just forget about it. And now after the first flurry of telling people he's not exactly full of questions - he touches my tummy sometimes and stuff but I think until he feels it move or whatever he just isn't quite sure what to feel iykwim. It's hard for them I think.