stressedad2be
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Hi,
My girlfriend is 7 weeks pregnant, we planned it, it happened the 1st time she ovulated (im pretty proud of that lol). Since becoming pregnant she is a different person, i understand pregnancy hormones are horrendous but she keeps pushing me away and is cold and distant.
I try and support her and am genuinely excited about the whole thing, we are in love, everything was cool before she got pregnant and it was her choice.
I run her baths, massage her and just try give her a break by helping with her 2 year old daughter from a previous relationship and i tidy up etc.
We have argued (im not easy sometimes, i have integrity and when she hammers my morals i react) and at the minute she is just nasty with her responses and just cannot talk anymore, we have always communicated well and resolved stuff but now she just is horrible.
She had a miscarraige before her daughter and i know it is very difficult for her and she is worried and has admitted feeling depressed about it all.
She has told me she has mixed feelings about the pregnancy and in a heated row she turned round and shouted i dont want you or your f**king baby. The other night she basically walked in and said if she could go back in time and be with me or not she doesnt know what she would do!!!
Im a good looking lad, confident and not a pushover, i would die for that girl but right now she makes me feel so unloved and lonely and unsure about the relationship that it is getting me down, i feel as though i cannot talk to her anymore and i think its making me depressed.
I want to be strong and happy so i can support her etc but feel weak and low.
I am supposed to be moving in with her but she keeps shouting at me to get out of her house, i left my own home and now i feel like i dont have a home, i need stabilty. What happened to the girl who loved me? Is it hormones? Advice please.
I feel selfish by posting this and by not coping better but its driving me crazy. I left her house the other day to breathe and get a better perspective, i hardly spoke for two days with her. I let her come to me, she did txt me everyday but nothing kind and loving after a bit of time to reflect.
PLEASE HELP.
Thanks
My girlfriend is 7 weeks pregnant, we planned it, it happened the 1st time she ovulated (im pretty proud of that lol). Since becoming pregnant she is a different person, i understand pregnancy hormones are horrendous but she keeps pushing me away and is cold and distant.
I try and support her and am genuinely excited about the whole thing, we are in love, everything was cool before she got pregnant and it was her choice.
I run her baths, massage her and just try give her a break by helping with her 2 year old daughter from a previous relationship and i tidy up etc.
We have argued (im not easy sometimes, i have integrity and when she hammers my morals i react) and at the minute she is just nasty with her responses and just cannot talk anymore, we have always communicated well and resolved stuff but now she just is horrible.
She had a miscarraige before her daughter and i know it is very difficult for her and she is worried and has admitted feeling depressed about it all.
She has told me she has mixed feelings about the pregnancy and in a heated row she turned round and shouted i dont want you or your f**king baby. The other night she basically walked in and said if she could go back in time and be with me or not she doesnt know what she would do!!!
Im a good looking lad, confident and not a pushover, i would die for that girl but right now she makes me feel so unloved and lonely and unsure about the relationship that it is getting me down, i feel as though i cannot talk to her anymore and i think its making me depressed.
I want to be strong and happy so i can support her etc but feel weak and low.
I am supposed to be moving in with her but she keeps shouting at me to get out of her house, i left my own home and now i feel like i dont have a home, i need stabilty. What happened to the girl who loved me? Is it hormones? Advice please.
I feel selfish by posting this and by not coping better but its driving me crazy. I left her house the other day to breathe and get a better perspective, i hardly spoke for two days with her. I let her come to me, she did txt me everyday but nothing kind and loving after a bit of time to reflect.
PLEASE HELP.
Thanks