My boyfriend doesn’t want me to keep baby

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  1. Iamscared

    Iamscared New Member

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    I just found out I am 8 weeks pregnant. I am scared and feel alone. I have had past abortions and I regret every single one of them. I have never even told anyone about them only my boyfriend so please don’t judge or scorn me. My boyfriend wants me to have another abortion but I literally cannot do it. I sincerely would rather die then to go through that again. I still deal with the emotions. We are not financially ready, I just lost my job, we both don’t have insurance (in a worse financial position than I was during the others) but I still can’t bring myself to it. My BF is angry ad upset, he told me he loves me but thinks I should go through with it. I am scared and stressed, I don’t want this to effect my baby. Has anyone else had this experience? Please tell me if you have..
     
  2. Fsb676

    Fsb676 Well-Known Member

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    Awwww I am so very sorry to hear that you are going through so much! I have never gone through this, and I can’t imagine all of the emotions, thoughts, and feelings! My advice would be that you know exactly how you will feel having experienced this before. I don’t know how to say it more gently, than that you already know to keep your little baby, as you explained in your post. The hard part will be worrying about how to help your bf understand, and to financially get on. Rest assured that God blessed you with this little life, and He isn’t going to abondon you by your keeping it. He can provide. I wish I could give you a hug, and tell you everything is going to be ok. <3 DM me if you ever need to talk!!!
     
  3. MysticKitten

    MysticKitten Well-Known Member

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    Apply for all the insurance and financial aids available to you. If you’re going to keep the baby, he doesn’t HAVE to be a part of it (though in the best scenario he would be). It sounds like your mind is made up. I hope for the very best for you and little one.
     
  4. miamia

    miamia Well-Known Member

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    I am sorry you are going through this. Make any decision you won't regret in the future. However, if you want you can improve your financial situation in many ways. MysticKitten mentioned a few options, and there are many jobs available in the Interner, e.g. on fevver or upwork such as translation, virtual assistance, and others by doing them you can start from $5-10 per hour. Once you gain experience, you can charge high fees. Myself I also know single women with a baby met wonderful men who loved their baby.
     

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