Its long winded but ill give you the low down. My partners brother met someone and after three months got this girl pregnant. Ironically me and my partner had been trying to concieve for 8months and it finally happened!! So me and his brother partner were only 2 weeks apart! Shes a NIGHTMARE. From day one she said 'i was gutted when i found out you were pregnant' I was fuuuming. So i said 'well it was planned'. So weeks passed and the competition started 'what pram you getting, what names do you have bla bla bla'. Then she found out she was having a boy and me a girl. She apparently kicked off. His mum threw us a baby shower- she rufused to come in because 'i'd get all the attention'. Shes a nutcase! Anyway there was murder not long after that- they were spying, asking my friends what we were getting the baby etc. Never known ANYTHING like it. We recently made up and sent pictures of both babies, i bought their little one a load of stuff, they took the gear and around christmas time started ignoring us again! Shes money mad. Apparently she said 'i thought i struck lucky meeting him, thought he had his own business- turns out it was his dads hahahaha!' Money mad- or what? Her whole way of thinking is pretty messed up. Its difficult for us because weve tried to make amends so many times. Yet its them with this 'problem...'