Multiple Sclerosis

[Hara]

We have decided to try for a baby, but Hubbie has MS and can find it difficult with BD. It's not his fault, but he's so upset with himself, and feels guilty towards me and feels that he's not showing me love let alone ttc.

Has anyone got any advice?

 

[chellieboo]

Sorry no advice honey, but didn't want to read and run....

perhaps you could try asking your GP if there is anything they can do to help?

 

[libs]

erm well...if he really can't manage it but doesn't want to disappoint you when ttcing - there's always my method, which involves a syringe and a plastic cup

as a couple you could make it less clinical - it helps for you to be aroused as well, so you could have foreplay and help him to finish and he could help you the same afterwards - as an orgasm can help you.

I know this sounds a little extreme, but if it is going to be a problem - its 1 possible solution.