MMC

Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by furbaby, Jun 8, 2013.

  1. furbaby

    furbaby Well-Known Member

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    I've decided not to update my first tri post it's a worrying enough time..... I had my 12 week scan yesterday and was told baby had died between 9-10 weeks- I now have to wait till WEDNESDAY to have surgical management

    I'm torn between crying and being stoic - I still feel very pregnant so needless to say this has come as a complete shock xxx
     
  2. Robyner

    Robyner Well-Known Member

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    So sad to hear this :( take care x
     
  3. ChloeSmith

    ChloeSmith Well-Known Member

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    So sorry, look after yourself xx
     
  4. Princess81

    Princess81 Well-Known Member

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    Oh hun, so very sorry to hear this. Lots of Love xxx

    tapatalking!!
     
  5. leean10

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    I'm sorry to hear this hon, look after yourself x
     
  6. Dotty_woman

    Dotty_woman Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear this hun. I think it's awful finding out like this as you have had no indication that anything was wrong. I was at least starting to have some indication that something wasn't right at about 8 weeks when this hapoened to me. Baby had stopped growing at 6 weeks. Thinking of you for Wednesday. xxx
     
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    scn Well-Known Member

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    Oh hun, I'm so sorry. I know how you feel, I lost mine at just over 13 weeks and found out from a scan as I had no idea.
    Take care xxx
     
  8. jojo3972

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    I'm so sorry fur baby mmc is the worse mc its so cruel our bodies letting us think all is ok I know from experience beeing lulled into false security , I also had to wait about 5 days to have my Erpc with my second loss and about the same for my medical managed after my first loss unfortunately that didn't work for me and I needed Erpc anyways , I hope it works for u and its over quickly , take care of urself big hugs xxx
     
  9. twixi

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    So sorry to hear this. It happened to me two weeks ago. I was still throwing up on the morning I went to hospital for medical management. Take care of yourself in this horrid time xxx
     
  10. laurat

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    Im so sorey for your loss! Xx
     
  11. lozzalozza

    lozzalozza Well-Known Member

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    So sorry, this happened to me in March I should have been 12 weeks and the baby hadn't developed from 6 weeks. - So cruel. It was over a week before I was allowed to have an erpc as there is some rule that they had to do two scans a week apart to make sure they hadn't got it wrong even though it was obvious there was no baby. You will be devastated so just take each day at a time. Things will get better your bean just wasn't ready this time x.
     
  12. flisstebbs

    flisstebbs Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry, mmc is the cruelest thing. I had the same with my first pg. Its rotten to have to wait until weds, we found my hubby s bupa covered me for this so I got it done earlier. If you have any cover check it out. Take care of yourself x
     
  13. Daley

    Daley Well-Known Member

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    Really sorry to hear this Hun. Thinking of you x
     
  14. Lozzaste

    Lozzaste Well-Known Member

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    Very very sorry to hear this. It's happened to me twice last year, it's devastating and massively disappointing.
    I hope you're ok, make sure you are kind to yourself and take it easy. The emotional side of MMC is something you will face and sometimes I was ok and others it just hit me like a ton of bricks, what I'm saying is don't bottle things up, if you want to cry, cry and scream if you want to scream.
    In my thoughts xx
     
  15. Iwant3

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    sorry to hear your news.....
     
  16. Rebecca89

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    I'm so sorry xx
     
  17. timtam78

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    Oh so sorry hun :( hugs :hugs: xxxxx
     
  18. Mummyof3tobe

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    I'm so sorry to hear your news. This happened to me last month at the 12 week scan. It is so cruel. I too felt very pregnant and still had loads of symptoms but baby had stopped growing about 7 weeks.

    Thinking of you and we're all here if you need to talk xx
     
  19. Natalilly1288

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    Big hugs hunny thinking of you xxxx
     
  20. bute69

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    Having just had a MC at 5 Weeks, I'd just like to say how sorry I am. It's a horrible time. x
     

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